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writes:I always thought that if a guy was gona use a girl for sex that he would try sleeping with her on the first date and if he didnt get anything, he would turn away and she would never hear from him again. But now I'm thinking maybe guys who use girls for sex, try a bit harder? Is it common for guys to ask a girl to be their gf, in hope that since he has "commited" to her, she will sleep with him?I also always thought that a guy who just wanted to use a girl for sex would never bother going for a girl who was rather conservative, quiet/shy and religous, as what would be the point? But now I'm starting to doubt that either as many guys have tried doing that to me. But why do they try that on someone who is clearly not interested in casual sex? Why woudlnt they go for someone who is 'easier'? What are you thoguhts on that? And generally speaking, how do you spot a guy who wants to use a girl for sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 They're not going to go for an easy girl, because there's no chase - which is what guys like, the harder you fight them away, the more they're going to want you and hope you eventually give in.
If he's a jerk, he's going to love you and leave you.
However, not every guy in the world is like this, so you may need to lower your hackles to take a chance with a guy who may not be chasing you for sex. Or even better, understands your choice not to have casual sex and does not think he can change that.
Hope this helps.
xo
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 if they wanted sex they could just go pay for it. and WHAM. instant sex.
its all about the chase. the hunter and the hunted.
guys like a challenge.
as sam neil in jurassic park said.
"He doesn't want to be fed, he wants to hunt."
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