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female
age
30-35,
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writes:Hey.I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him with all my heart. I took a warming to his Mum too. She was lovely and we got on.However, she's always been close with my boyfriends ex girlfriend. They've always been good mates and she used to invite her round to the house when I was with my boyfriend. His ex still loves him and wants to be with him, so this upset me a lot. My boyfriend was against this, and stopped at mine whilst she was there. I didn't go round for ages, but she then started inviting me round again. Things were a bit awkward but we still chatted. But then my boyfriends ex text him again trying to take her off me. I confronted her through text, mail. and nothing, no reply. It got to the point where I was so angry that I wrote a status on Facebook about her calling her every name under the sun, because I was sick of her trying to take my boyfriend off me, I would have nothing if he'd gone!! Anyway his Mum text me today saying a family member had seen what I wrote and that she can't believe how nasty I've been. She said I was no friend of hers and now she's deleted me off everything. I text her back saying how sorry I was and I would love a chance but I haven't had no reply. I can't believe she's fell out with me because of an ex who my boyfriend doesn't even want in his life.What is his Mum's problem? And will this make the relationship awkward, or shall I just walk away now?
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (19 March 2011):
Why would you walk away like that? You love your boyfriend, and you have no problem with him. Why don't you ask your boyfriend to deal with his mother? Tell him what you told us, and tell him that he should tell her mother that he absolutely does not want his ex to be in his life any more no matter how much his mom likes her.His mother and his ex seem to be unconsiously working together to cause trouble in your relationship. Are you going to let his ex succeed? No, be a brave girl. If you even thought of moving on, then they are winning.You have to deal with this together with your boyfriend. I bet he is bothered by this too. Tell him all that you have told us.Good luck
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