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writes: I met a guy on holiday and at first i was adamant that we were no more than friends, though he did earn some points when he kept wrapping his arm round my waist when we walked together. We were with loads of other people (our age, roughly) and he didn't seem to care at all. I only had a week there, and that was the first night i saw him. We met up again by coincidence on the last full night and i finally kissed him (omg it was the most romantic thing... at night, beautiful gardens, everyone having a great time). We were both so happy but also sad that it was just the last night, and on the last night we had to get together, and i blame myself for that. We met again in a park the next day a few hours before i was meant to leave, with all the other people, and he didn't seem to care everyone was watching us. He was so sweet and only a few times did we properly kiss, it was mostly incredibly cute pecks on the lips. Best kisser. Guys my age are stupid, so it's fitting that he is 2 years older than me. He is mature and kind and funny and flirty...sigh...(notice how i dont care what he looks like, though he's quite cute)So now im back home, and we both miss eachother like shizzle, and we were both happy when i found out that going back next year is definatley on the cards. But only for a day. What do you do when you only have a day with this amazing guy? I dont want to let this go because i will never find a guy like him again, especially not over here. He knows already how to treat me because it's in his nature. What would be the best way of making it the best day for both of us?(yes, i am legal, but thats not what both of us are thinking about, AT ALL) (and sozzles for the essay, just thought i would give you a bit of background)10 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (7 December 2011):
You need to be realistic about this and see that it is not Romeo and Juliet. Yes you had an amazing time with him, but it was a holiday romance and nothing more. It is great you will get to see him again and spend the day with him, but you need to stop investing so much time in to this, because that is all it will ever be is a holiday romance. There are plenty of ways to spend the day together, talk to each other and see what you can both come up with, that you would both like to do. But don't expect that you are ever going to be with him because there is to much distance between you both, so don't keep him as your only option for boyfriend material.
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