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writes:What do you do if after 4 years into the relationship your bf still keeps intouch with his ex. And even after fighting and talking about how much it bothers me he still talks to her. I don't mind much of the keeping in touch with her, what bothers me is that he hides it from me; and even after I confronted him he stills reject the fact that he still talks to her almost everyday. (when I know for a fact that he does talk to her almost everyday).
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (19 September 2008):
 That's why people do the "no contact" rule after a break up. That way you can heal and move forward with your life. If you still keep in touch, it is not fair for any future relationships you might have. It's hard to let go, but if you don't let go, you won't grasp wonderful things that might come your way. I think you need to give him an ultimatum. HER or ME. and if he chooses his ex, then you know he's not worth your time and love, because he still isn't over her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): honestly I would tell him it's over unless you guys can work it out you don't need to be hurt and if it's affecting your relationship I wouldnt want to go through that, but I would talk to him and just ask why he still talks to her and tell him it dosnt bother you they talk it's that he's hiding it and see what happens and if it's gonna end up in a argument it's not worth it
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