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writes: ok, I like this guy, he's my friends brother I known him for almost 2 years. I started to like him but wasn't ready for a relationship till i got out of high school, and he flirts with me, but last year he did something called the underground and it was at the church and he couldnt date for a year but while he was in it, but I told him I liked him and then he started talking to me more and flirting with me more, and when he got out we talked a lot and stuff but recently he got a girlfriend and his friends say he's not sure if he really likes her and he still wants to talk to me when i see him and my friend thinks he likes me but he's not sure if he wants date me because I'm like family to there family so she thinks he's afraid of it not working out or something and I dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, I have been just seeing how it goes I think were both just not ready for a relationship so we'll just see how it goes in time, I'm not going to rush anything but I'm also not going to wait when I'm ready though so we'll see
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008):
It could be that this guy likes you and that he is scared that it might ruin the friendship between you and his sister and the family should a relationship between you not work.
I suggest you stay friendly, flirt with him; tease him and depending on his reaction have a talk to him.
There is no point in you hanging around waiting and hoping if he is not going to make a move.
You could even try and make him a little jealous by flirting with somebody else when he is around. Watch his reaction. If he really cares about you that should make him realize that he must make a move or he might loose you.
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