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reader, parasophie  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 my boyfriend has told me he was bisexual and that he has only just found out this about himslef otherwise he wouldoff told me before the relationship began i feel a different way for him now but that doesnt mean i want to finish him he's trust wothy andni asked him if he had fancied a guy would he tell me and he said yes if anyone else had a bisexual boyfriend be there for them dont run away straight away listen to what they got to say and stick by his sides just like he was family
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2005): Be truthful and just ask him how he feels. The problem is that if he IS indeed bisexual and you guys have trust issues...you would have to worry about him cheating on you with both sexes. But if you guys are honest with each other then there shouldn't be a problem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2005): Talk to your boyfriend! Tell him you don't want any secrets from each other. If he does like both sexes, ask yourself: do you want to go out with this person? It all depends on your heart really; if you LOVE this person then it shouldn't matter if they like both sexes.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (22 March 2005):
 This all depends on what you want. Do you wish to be with someone who is attracted to both sexes? It will probably be best to just ask him how he feels. Does he find both men and women attractive? Say to him that you have noticed certain things and it has made you wonder. Ask him if he is happy with you and is he still willing to be committed to you.It is only after you have these answers will you know what to do next and it all really depends on what he says.You can be tactful and sensitive and not just accuse him of being bisexual. Say to him that it does concern you and you are worried.Most importantly, you need to ask yourself how you feel about being with someone who is bisexual. It doesn't mean he will run off with someone else but it does add a different slant on things.I hope this helps.
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