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writes: Hi,I'm 16 and I used to date my mum's best friend's daughter a while back. We had a secret relationship which lasted for a while, up until I moved away. My mum lost contact with her best friend and she has said she doesn't want to get back in touch with them but I went over to her house to find that she didn't live there anymore. I was shocked but I was also hurt. I have no idea of where she lives now but I am currently trying to locate her. I think that I still love her, we went to the same school together, lived near each other, spent all the holidays together. That's when we began to get close and we fell for each other. Not one person knew that we were lovers and I don't know how I'll find her or even if I will find her but no one understands that. I miss her so much and I really don't know what I should do. Thanks,Chris
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Chris, writes (23 March 2005): Thanks for your advice Rebecca.i have tried sites like friends reunited but to no avail, however i know her mum's surname and i have run a check from the electoral registerand i have found 17 matches so i am going to try that first and see what happens. we have never fell out and she did have my address but we haven't in contact for a while. but thank you very much for your advice.Thanks,Chris
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (22 March 2005):
 I wonder why your relationship was so secretive? Was it because you were both so young or were there other reasons? Does your mum know about your longing to find her? Perhaps if you confide in your mum about this, she may be able to help. She has said that she doesn't wish to get back in touch with her friend but she may still have some ideas as to the family's whereabouts.Have you tried contacting some of your old friends from school? Perhaps they may know where to reach your girlfriend.Another idea is to try sites like friends reunited in a hope to locate her. You could try the local paper to the area and put in an advertisement that you are trying to reach her.Did you fall out with her before you moved away? I am assuming you gave her your address when you moved away? There is a possibilty that she may not want to be found but the only way you can discover this is by trying to reach her.I do hope this helps.
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