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writes:I'm 12 and I have been going out with this boy for about a month now. I really want to kiss him and he really wants to kiss me too but I'm scared that I will be a rubbish kisser and I am afraid he will dump me for it. I am Quite shy around him too but we get on really well and I Don't want to lose him. What Should I Do? Please Help :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): ur Afraid that u will be a rubbish.. kisser eh? well if u gone out with someone for a month without foreplay whatsoever than that means u seem to be the type looking for a long strong relationship which i Love it that way the best and i Respect that. It ok if ur quite shy around him. let him know how u Really Feel about this kissing business a few days or a week or two beforehand. tell him wait for the Right ''Mood'' Ur Relationship shouldnt be about Kissing. so even if are or both of you are rubbish kissers It should not engage in any sort of Crisis within ur relationship. if it does. ur relationship is all about kissing and sexual conduct. which is Not what u are looking for if uve been dating him for a Month.
hope this helps. Alvin =)
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reader, lisa21 +, writes (8 September 2007):
remember to breathe and try not to dribble. x x x
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (8 September 2007):
 Hey hunny, i was about your age when i got my first 'proper' kiss, and believe me, i didnt know what the hell i was doing, it comes naturally, i just did what i thought i was suppost to do, and ive been complimented ever since, seriously its the fear of the unknown that youve got, which we all get. just go with it, no need to be scared and wonder if you will be good/bad, you will adapt to whoever you kiss, i know this from the variaty of 'different' kissers ive kissed, it doesnt take long to ajust. Just go with it, its like dancing, if your unsure, let the other person lead, and you cant go wrong.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (8 September 2007):
 Sugar, You have nothing to worry about. We all started with a first kiss. You need to remember, He may also be experiencing his first kiss with you, so he will not know at this point whether you are a good kisser or a bad kisser. All he will know is he is experiencing the extasy of his first kiss, or at least nearly his first. In any case he has little or no experience as well. ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Hey kid.
Hmm, I suppose you have got to feel the moment. Don't be afraid and just breath. You know when it right by feeling the moment.
I really hope that helps you.
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