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writes:Don't know what to do with wife,she is resentful whenever I try to be romantic with her and threatens to go int he other room - has zero interest in sex at all - and used to be demanding of my attentions, even if I was wathcing TV she called me in to take care of her and I NEVER, ever denied her - been 2 years since we have been intimate - won't discuss it or talk about it? We are in our 50's and I have at least a normal drive and tire of taking maters into my own hands so to speak?She used to blame it on no time, she'd retired since December 2005 so TIME isn't the issue?Thanks desperate to save our relationship! I love her but don't even know if she realizes this with her mean responses and reactions to my approaches! I am about to retire in December! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks maybe I phrased it wrong - menopause was completed early in her life, and she used to still at least allow me to give her pleasure - IF I were able to at least do that - then my love release would be tolerable - I want S to at least have that much! :(
She already has gone completely through menopause - I have always been attentive to her needs never concerned with my own selfish pleasures, always excited by her enjoying what I did FOR her - ELDERLY, PLEASE early 50's is hardly ELDERLY! give me a break!
Am still trying VERY hard to contain my personal needs within' the relationship and not seeking outside 'help' but, feel if it continues, she gets angry when i mention talking to our Dr who is also our close friend - I don't know how to ask our Dr but, am trying :(
appreciate anyone that knows how I can get through her barier to get her to discuss it with our Dr?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): you guys are elderly, perhaps she isn't feeling good?
or maybe shes going through her menopause, weird things cold happen then
Its probably because she thinks shes too old for that stuff
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