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writes:I'm 12 years old and I'm not sure if i'm lesbian.last week me and my best friends had a sleep over and we all started fingering each other. I masturbateto lesbian porn and I don't get turned on by boys. Am Ilesbian?
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reader, MissHelp +, writes (30 August 2008):
I'm twelve too. i don't get turned on by boys. i have been turned on by one girl. It's normal. When i'm older i guess thats when i'll decide if i want to be a lesbian like my sister or bi or straight. It's normal to explore your body and your sexuality so don't freak. What you shouldn't be doing though is watching porn. Youre twelve and porn is too over the top for kids our age. Watching porn is wrong no matter how old you are.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (18 July 2008):
 Regardless of whether you're gay or straight, you're way too young to be watching gay porn, that is for ADULTS which is why it is called ADULT film. If what you're doing is confusing you, maybe you shouldn't do it! take a step back, and think about why you're doing it to begin with--because other girls are doing it during a sleepover? cause you're curious? because you want attention or want to join in on the fun? or because you like it? I'd also like to say you have to be careful that you are sanitary about this 'play,' don't finger one girl and then another after another. you never know who could have an std/sti, if you are already getting into each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Maybe.You'll find out later.You were expirementing and some of us get turned on by certain and different things.You could be bi,gay,or straight.You may grow out of this stage.But it doesn't make you any different,whatever you are.
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reader, HannARGH! (: +, writes (17 July 2008):
 First of all your only 12 years old and your going through changes and developing hormones, at 12 your beginning to explore your sexuality and decide whats right for you, its hard to tell at this age whether your are or not as you get older your feelings could change and you might start developing interest for boys, i remember when i was 12 and i wasn't interested in boys at all until i was at least 14, i suggest you wait until your older, if your feelings for girls still develop and you also feel things for boys then this could mean that your bisexual. there is nothing wrong with masterbating It's a perfectly natural way of exploring your body and discovering what feels good for you, however doing this with your friends could be just a phase like i said your only 12, dont make any assumptions that you actually are a lesbian until your older and fully developed your feelings may change as your hormones grow and you start developing.
Good luck :)
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