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What do I do when I'm on top?

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Question - (10 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have never done the girl on top position and always felt a little self conscious about it. Like what exactly am I supposed to do? Do I go up and down or move back and forth? I dont want to appear fat to him and I dont want him to be grossed out. Also, how do I know when to stop? Any advice appreciated!

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (10 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntPlay with rocking your hips and swiveling them. Think belly dancer.

Try not to bounce up and down like your riding a pony. Just guide your self up and down, feeling the line of his penis. You don't want to go too far up and then come slamming down, since it can hurt him if the penis bends too harshly.

Also, ask him to move you how he wants to. He will get a big kick out of grabbing your hips and guiding you to what feels good for him, and you will get a lesson about his turn ons at the same time.

Be safe

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntHere's some instructional and educational sites you can look at:

http://www.goodtoknow.co.uk/relationships/259026/Kama-Sutra-positions

http://www.jijasali.com/kama.php?category=positions

http://www.caitlainscorner.com/content/view/190/69/

http://www.spaceandmotion.com/kamasutra-pictures.htm

Cat

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