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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best friend is making me mad she always ask me if I'm seeing anybody and I'm afraid to tell her I am because she always wants there numbers then she will call them and it feels weird what do I do or tell her?
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 Tell her your seeing someone but that you ain't gonna give her their number because you really like this guy and you don't want anything standing in the way of it.
You really need to tell her not to call them or talk to them anyway coz it just ain't right, she shouldn't try to get herself so involved in your business.
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reader, Dree23 +, writes (12 June 2007):
Wow, what kind of best friend do you have or should I ask what kind of person are you to even allow her to do that? Ok, number one stop being so passive towards this girl. You will never have anyone if you keep letting her call them. Put your foot down with her....are you afraid of her? Are you afraid if you speak your mind she will no longer be your friend? She's not a real BEST friend anyway because of her actions but if she is worth holding on to and you yourself do want to continue to talk to guys, then tell her straight out. Be nice about it but be adult also. If not then you should just start a relationship with her and forget guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): The real question may be why your friend wants to talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend. Does she just want to protect you? Is this friend trying to steal your lover when she calls them? It's almost always better to discuss things rather than hide them, so be honest with your friend. Tell them you're dating, but you're not comfortable with them meeting yet.
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reader, Melanne  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 I'm sorry to hear you feel so mad at your friend can you tell her how she's making you feel? It's none of your friends business who you date you are in control of your own life. You can tell your friend you are dating someone, but you don't need to give her their telephone number.
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