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writes:Okay so I'm worried that maybe I'm screwed. What do I do if a friend (that's a girl and I'm a boy) decides that she wants more than friends? I don't, otherwise I wouldn't be asking. we are very close friends. I am a very sensitive and affectionate guy and she seems to have misread that which is a big f**k up because she should know me better than that surely? Also she is one of a group of 3 very close friends who are girls who are all friends with each other so why she would think that is a mystery or it would be if one of the other girls hadn't raised awareness through a buddy of mine and stuff. wow I'm confused. My choices so far are:1. Move to China2. Move some place other than China that's still far away3. Weep4. Get assisted suicide by over-the-top castration (involves rope and a fast car)I'm mad confused and really freaked. Help me please this is off the chain. Reply to this Question
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 I have been to China and it is a great country but running away wont help you. I was in a situation like that however, I was the girl liking a guy friend of 10 years. He told me that he wasnt interested in a relationship because if it didnt go well then it could ruin our 10yr friendship. We are each other's confidant and best friend so to take a risky path...it could ruin us so why bother.
If she doesnt like your answer then she has to deal with that. Just remind her that you value her friendship but you arent ready to take that step with her or anyone else right now for that matter.
It may be hard to say that and heck you might cry because you can see her feelings and all but you are telling her how it is and that your heart isnt on the same level she is on right now.
China is awesome. Go!
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