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writes:It was the 4th of July and I am not always in town so I decided to hang with my bro(not dna related) and sis(half sis). I felt safe with them especially since they didn't bring any guys. I was drunk after 3 shots bec I havn't drank a lot but they wanted to really introduce me to real alcohol (the expensive kind). My shot glass was filled over (around ten times and I also had a few martinis.)Before we drank my bro talked about how much i had grown hips and boobs. Later he started kissing me. i don't remember it all but I know he told me he wanted to give me oral sex and then he did it and he also fingered me but then he told me he wanted to have sex but Idk if he did. I am a virgin so I don't think so. I woke up with his shorts on and with no underwear on. I also know the cops came because they said there had been screams and disturbance an my bro said it was me but I also know that we were roughhousing. I cant tell anyone..what do I do? Is this wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould I confront him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your info.
I got to the rainn online hotline and I got disconnected but she told me she couldn't categorize what happened..i think it is because of legal reasons...
but this isn't my fault right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Did you try finding a local center or calling their national line?
http://centers.rainn.org/
If you let us know what state you live in, maybe we could help find a better number?
Stay strong and keep us updated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI called RAINN and tried their online hotline but neither was working- I couldn't get to the right people. So what should I do about a sexual assault crisis center??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is not dna related but my family considers him my brother and he calls me his sister. And the next day, he said something to make fun of me and I said f**** you. And he said 'no I can't because you are my sister.' He confuses me. But I told my best friend and she said that she didn't think she could survive being me (because I have been sexually assaulted before) and I wondered if I could live anymore too. I can't go to a trial. I couldn't handle that. But I realize that I can't let this get me down because I am not a quitter.Thank you for your comments!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): I am sorry that this has happened to you. I agree that you should report is as rape or sexual assault. You said he was not DNA related, so is he your half-brother or stepbrother? I am taking it that you did not enjoy what he did to you, correct? The only thing is that if this goes to trial, you may be put on the stand and your character will be called into question, especially if his lawyers can prove or allege that you kissed him back and encouraged him or did anything to make him think you wanted to have sex with him. So be ready for stuff like that, cuz it could get bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Just when you thought it was safe to drink alcohol....
Call the nearest rape crisis center. They are pretty good about anonymity. NO means NO. This guy needs some serious help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMORE INFO!!
I know that I said no during the oral sex but he kept acting like he didnt hear me. I also told him to stop touching me when I think he was trying to put his shorts on me but a couple min later he started fingering me.
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