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writes:I like this guy that i'm working with at the office so i like him a lot and it looks like he likes me too but there's lots of tension in the office i don't know why theres lots of girls who will feel like who is she to have just arrived and got involved with him like that. Please help i need to know what i must do coz now things are getting too complicated i really like him and want to give it a try but i feel like there's something his not telling me. Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Truthfully? NO, back off and give this some major time before you go charging in there. If your gut feeling tells you not to do it then follow your instinct.
Check out the dynamic of the office first, take a couple of months to get the lay of the land before you ask him....what would you do if he knocked you back? How would you cope with maybe the whole office knowing? Think before you do this.
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reader, kenny +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Any sort of office dating is difficult. As you have only been there a short amount of time take a back seat for a while, find out abit more about this guy. It does sound like from what you have said that there is a conection between the two of you, but as i say collate some infomation on him first, speak to the other office girls.
Also watch out for office dating, because when things are good things are good, but when things go pear shaped, if they do, things can get quite messy. Because you still have to see them every day, but it also creates alot of tention for co-workers also.
Good luck x
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 You say there's tension in the office. Could it be that one of your co-workers is involved with him. . . or maybe they know something about him that you don't?
Have you made any friends with any of the females in your office? They may be able to help you with the "down low" on your new found beau.
Good luck!
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