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What do guys want? Quirky or normal?

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Question - (23 April 2006) 9 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi

i am 15 and want to know what guys look for in a girl? do they want a girl tht is mad, funny and strange lol? do tht want a girl thts more normal and calm?

plz tell me thanks

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A female reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (26 April 2006):

prttymtlkitty agony auntI know what she means. Some girls and even women never grasp this concept, but just continue to change themselves to suit whatever guy they are with. That never works long term and ends in heartbreak when they try to be or find themselves in the relationship. You have to decide who you want to be, what really inspires you, etc. Knowing who you are is very attractive. Nobody likes a fake.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006):

trust me, guys like a girl for who they are. don't try to be anyone else but yourself. if you are confident in who you are and show your unique style and personality, a guy will be attracted to YOU. just think about what kind of guy you are attracted to: he probably isn't trying to be someone he is not, right? but if you want some advice on how to be around the guy you like, just be NICE! show him that you are interested by asking questions, and make eye contact.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006):

Personally, I want someone who is well-mannered in public and someone who is wild exclusively to me in private. 8] Then of course there are lots of other factors that may or may not attract me, etc. It depends on the mechanics of the person - if they are compatible with mine or not.

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A male reader, Mr. Buddy +, writes (23 April 2006):

dont try and be anything but your self. all guys usually want something differnt in a girl, but i think all guys like it when you give them attention but dont be obsesive.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006):

The question you should ask yourself is what do you want from a guy? It really doesn't matter what guys want in the end - if you don't like the guy, it doesn't matter what he wants, right? Don't change yourself so that you can be wanted by guys. Be yourself and you will find the person you want to be with. Good luck!

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A male reader, cam Australia +, writes (23 April 2006):

cam agony auntsry 2 be the one to tell ya but we all want differnt things just be u'r self and u will find the right guy for u if u pretend to be sum1 else then u could end up wif the wrong type of guy

good luck wif everyfin

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006):

I think that different types of guys go for different types of girls. But in my opinion, most men prefer a woman with a sense of humour and a laid-back attitude to life. They prefer a girl who can laugh at herself and who they can have a laugh with. And yes, they do like the strange mad types because they find that interesting.

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A female reader, dummyduckling United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2006):

dummyduckling agony auntWell it all depends on the boy becaus eall boys minds re different but normaly guys go for a girl thats herself and doesn't try to act a certain way to get there attention. just be yourself and get to be friends with the guy you want then make the move when the times right.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006):

All guys go for different people. Girls who are approachable seem to be popular. Speaking from personal experience, if you're wierd then it's very difficult to find guys who will get you and be interested. You tend to find it's the last person you'd ever expect to be the guy who likes you.

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