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writes:What r some dirty things I can whisper to my wife during sex to get her off? She's real good at the Nastybtalk during sex, and I really like it. Problem is, I am not sure what to say to her. What do girls like to hear. It's easy for girls, "fuck me" "I want ur cock In my mouth" etc. I particularly like it when she walks me thru a scenario where i fuck one of her friends.I just don't know what to say to her that she might like. Ladies, can u help? Reply to this Question
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reader, rivi +, writes (31 July 2010):
Well if you both like the scenario where you fuck one of her friends that could be a good place to start.
And maybe you could work out how to transfer that from fantasy to reality ? That would be a pretty big turn on....
What about anal ? Have you ever done that with her or do you want to ? If you want to you could see how she reacts to you talking dirty about it - ie really explicit description of what you want to do..... ?
Sounds like she's quite adventurous - you're lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Every girl is different. My ex didn't like much dirty talk at all...maybe the usual "you feel so good" stuff. But my current GF loves it. She likes getting it hard, and I have her begging for it, and then I say stuff like " so you like it hard in your..." etc (not going to fill in too much detail). You have to ease into it. If you go off right away cursing like a porn star, she may be turned off. Not enough, and you could be missing an opportunity for some good stuff.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 It totally depends on the girl. A lot of girls go wild for dirty talk, but it turns me off. I want something romantic in sweet... and I go wild for Spanish... like "ay mi amor..." or "quiero acariciar tu lindo cabello" or something like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): I usually like when my boyfriend tells me how good my body makes him feel. Things like "you're so wet" "You feel so tight" "this feels so good". I caution staying away from cussing too much unless she likes that, some girls get a little uncomfortable with it. It also depends on what you're doing, if you're not actually together or actually having sex yet you can tell her how much you want her, how much you want to be inside her, how good it would feel to be inside her. Then there's always the old cliche things "you like it when I f##k you huh?" And its never a bad idea to just ask her, or mirror the types of things she says to you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 July 2010):
 Some things are off limits to people. I had a gf who I learned very quickly didn't like dirty talk, AT ALL! Talking to her about what turns her on is a great start. Find out about her fantasies. I'd suggest some role playing since she obviously is ok with that. It's easy to cross the line though, so make sure you know the boundries.
Also, having some phone sex with her may be a way for you to practice. Just an idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): [on the phone] my boyfriend talks about what would normally happen if we start getting busy (: he includes ALOT of details. so depending on what your wife likes in bed, thats what you want to focus on. if she likes it rough, tell her how deep youll go into her and how fast and hard youll go. if she likes more sensual things, tell her how youll kiss her neck and inner thighs and give her chills down her back and legs.
if your as good as my boyfriend, youll have NO problem getting her off;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): "I particularly like it when she walks me thru a scenario where i fuck one of her friends" - that's a bit weird.
Well I agree with chigirl, it's very privet. This isn't really a problem. Just pay attention to what she likes and compliment her tell her things what you feel. When she sais something answer her.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 Well, ask her. I am not going to write dirty talk on dear cupid, those things are private for me. You should just ask your wife, or test it out and see how she reacts. The best is usually to do the simple and easy things as your wife is already doing. You said she said "fuck me", and that it is so easy for women? Just as easy for men. The male version of that one is: "I want to fuck you".
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