A
female
age
41-50,
*emmenoir
writes:Hi,after our 7th date together, my date kissed me, before we parted ways and although it was our first kiss shared, he decided to French kiss me and i was not expecting that, although i did enjoy our kiss very much. It was a little arkward for me, primarily because, i didn't see it coming, however, it all went very well, as far as i am concerned.My concern is that, after we kissed, i sent my date, a thankyou text, as i always do, just to thank him for the day out together.He replied soon after, telling me what a truly beautiful person i am and after his name, he added 2 kisses, which he did, for the first time.I am slightly confused @ present, as to where we stand with eachother. I am not even sure what to do next @ this point, as far as emailing or texting him goes, etiquette wise.Should i send him an email expressing how i felt about our first kiss shared, as i am very attracted to this man, or should i wait for him to send me his regular weekly email, which should arrive within the next day or two, then express how i felt about our first kiss, when i reply?(I would prefer the latter, to be honest.)I know he likes me, but as to what the kiss meant, i am unsure.Any sensible feedback would be greatly appreciated.Thankyou in advance!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 Not sure how old you are. Sounds like you are young and or naïve. He obviously wants to take this further. Enjoy, see what follows. Hope this helps.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 I agree with CMMP - there is no etiquette for this. I'm pretty sure he KNOWS you are attracted to him or you wouldn't have kissed him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2014): Only after 7th date he kissed you? What a gentleman!!
I don't understand why you want to have any action about it. He kissed you obviously because he is attracted to you. You might as well ask why is he dating me.Kiss is a part of this whole deal, lol
Don't do anyhting, because frankly it will look silly. Just let it develop by itself. I never heard if anyone asking someone, so when you kissed me what did you mean by that.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (9 June 2014):
I'll keep this simple: you are overthinking things.
There is no "thanking someone for the French kiss I'm really attracted to you" etiquette. Just do what feels natural and this guy will know the real you.
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