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What did he mean by that finger in my mouth?

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Question - (3 April 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2013)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a Best Friend. We are really very good Friends. Before some days,i was a bit upset,and he was trying to console me.

We were talking a lil bit flirty. He said like my soft stomach and started playing with it, rubbing with great care..Then after some time while we were having flirty kind of talk,he put his finger in my mouth and kept it for 2 sec, i responded with like yuukk..!

He kept rubbbing my stomach softly keeping praising for it. May be it was normal.

But It was Shocking for me that he started to play with my lips with his fingers..!! I asked him Aren't you thinking something dirty na..? He Refused..

He just Kissed me on my chicks which is normal at all..

But I am Really confused about,

What did he mean by that finger in my Mouth ?

And Was he really aroused ?? What he was thinking at that time actually..?

1 more thing, We are not G.f-B.f.. And I don't want to be..What to do to keep my friendship good not more then that ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2013):

Thanx a lot.. Really I got my answer as i expected.. This is really a very nice community.. srsly.. Thanx a lot every 1 who answered my Question.. I felt like i am having some fruitful advice from my elders.. Thanx a lot.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntYou want to be friends. He wants sex. Rule 1 DO NOT LET HIM TOUCH YOU AT ALL. NO HUGS, no fingers in your mouth, no touching your stomach.

It does not matter if he was aroused. You don’t’ want more than friends with him he wants sex (clearly). The ball is in your court.

I say tell him he may no longer invade your personal space and hold him to that. Stop flirting. Stop caring what he feels and thinks about sex.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (3 April 2013):

He obviously likes you. If you don't like him then don't let him get you in these types of situations. Tell him that you aren't sure what happened the other day, but you just want to keep things friendly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2013):

He probably didn't wash his hands properly after going to the toilet and wanted to put a bit of urine or poop into your mouth.

OP if you don't want to be his girlfriend then why are you letting him grope you and feel you up?

He's obviously trying to get sexual with you and you're leading him on by not stopping him.

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