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writes:I'm only married over a year and already, to me I feel as if my marriage ruined my relationship. My husband and I are living with family until our own place is ready but we basically just share a bed. There are days we wake up pass each other, go to work, come back and go to bed to sleep. It doesn't feel healthy at all. I know we have to discuss it, but he's a very to himself person and prefers to ignore a problem until it goes away rather than dealing with the actual problem. Times I have went to bed, alone, and cried myself to sleep. What could possibly be the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 Time to move out of the family home. If he was affectionate and intimate before you moved into the family home then he is uncomfortable showing affection in front of family members, I bet you don't have much if any sex either. Once he is used to living this way it will be very hard changing it when you move into your own home.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 you need to speak to him, communication is the key in marriage.
sometimes men dont understand us women so its upto us to tell them what is what so they have the chance to see the bigger picture.
u guys need to have some time alone and talk things thru and explain to him the relationship isnt feeling healthy for you.
good luck!
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