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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): godd, im glad i've found out that this is a normal thing.but im still soso embarassedit happened when i lost my virginityand i was so embarassed, i just hoped that he hadnt noticedi've had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times since then and it hasnt happened again.but i've found out that he has told his two best friends, one of which is seeing my best friend.now i feel so stupid because i didnt realise that theyd all been laughing at mei dont want to say anything to my boyfriend thouh because it is really embarassing.and i dont know if i want to have sex with him for a while because if it happens again then he will probably tell his friends.i cant stop thinking about it and im really worried ):
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Well I'm quite old compared to you lot and it happened to me just last night! I was absolutely mortified but he said "Don't worry" and carried on obliviuos!Unfortunately it didn't stop and after a few more quite juicy ones I had to change position so it would stop,much to his amusement.I think that the tip about doing pelvic floor exercises and plenty of orgasm is the answer as I've never had it happen since i was in my twenties and have had a healthy exercise routine in that department. We always seem to have 'rampant' sex so reckon a bit more 'exercising'of the pelvic type is the answer as in 5 years with him it's never happened before!You have to admit though, when you think about it it is funny and like the other ladies I have spent all the time i've been reading this laughing my ass off!Good Luck Girls1
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reader, enj  +, writes (18 August 2009):
Ok so this happen to me the other day after me and my boyfrined had sex...And he belives that it is because I am cheating on him..I know im not but i just want to know why this happens so i can show him the proof..Please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): i didnt know there was so many women out there who had the same problem as me. its rather comforting, iv had great sex and on numerous times iv "fanny farted" which was really embarrassing for me, but my boyfriend tells me to ignore it and not to worry, but i wouldnt be surprised if i was reder than a tomato, does anyone have any good tips on how to stop it from happening??? HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): tip for ladies after sex of doing doggy style lay on ur stomach and cross ur legs it will go away tell ur bf tht he has tired u out make him feel good this way u dont fanny fart and u also lie wif a tight ass both of u win :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): I first found this post a while back when I was in paranoia mode after getting with someone I really liked and it happening. He never said a word, and when it would happen and I would laugh, he would just quietly tell me.. shhhh.
He wasn't in the slightest bit bothered, and the person I have the problem with now, said he has found it happens to pretty much everyone, and its just normal. No one seems to be in the slightest bit bothered really, it just feels slightly awkward at the time.
Like they said, once the wheels are in motion, you really don't care about things like that, they just wanna come and do what they came to do :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): oh my god this is so funny yet perfectly normal, although I can see why some people get really embarassed by it. It happened to me with my boyfriend after some drunken 'rampant' sex, I was just like 'oo sorry' but he didn't take any notice and just told me he loved me!
But yeah from what I've read, opening your vagina with your fingers after sex if you think it's going to happen should work, just don't move to quickly after he's pulled out, that's the killer..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): i was with my fella and every time i sat up or even after fingering, they wer really bad like high pitchedd llong ones :( even though its nothing bad i feel sick thinking about it i also thnk that why he broke up with me, it was three motnhs ago but i still love him and he hates me but i always talk + think about him, i miss him the world and all i ever think about is how to get him back. my life is nothing without him and i blame this terrible thing for why he broke up with me ! i have no ttold any friends as i dont htink any of them are nice enough to understand and comfort me, they would probrably take the piss out of me. in school it has gone roind one girl done it with a well known lad bt my ex didnt tell so im thankful for that. i realy dont no what to do beause after we broke up we had sex again and i still did it. please someone post a soloution i need help !!!
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reader, lolarachelpo  +, writes (8 June 2009):
oh my god!i thought i was the only girl that did it. It has happend to me twice once with this lad i was seeing for a couple months and i was on top whilst he was doin the business and he let it out slowly and it happened I was dead embarassed!!The second time was pretty bad as well, its with my present partner and it was the first time we have had sex and we were changing positions like mad and i was lettin one out every so often not even realizing cos i was drunk! But he didnt do anything. He came back for round 2 so i thought it was sound but everytime i think about it it makes my cringe and i always think to myself that he thinks about it? Is there any solution?! Please because i cant handle this anymore!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): Oh gosh, this does make me feel better, i actually havent had sex, but i was being fingered and everything was normal, and then after me and my ex were lying there on the bed and suddenly it happened, i actually had no idea myself what it was and im pretty sure he just thought it was a normal fart, so im there bright red, and he says 'dont worry about it, just forget' im finally going back to my normal colour, when yes again, it happens, he looked pretty freaked out by then and i just buried my face in my pillow almost crying. Ahh bad times. And even now i get them when im doing sit ups. Being a woman, ahhh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): wow i didnt realise this happens to so many people. It happens to me all the time and its the single most embaressing thing thats ever happend to me! I was havin sex with my boyfriend and he was on top, he was nearly done when i let out the loudest cringeyest fanny fart ever! He looked at me confused. I was so embaressed i jus looked away lol. I find the best thing to do is lots of forplay before you have sex, it gets u ready "wet" so there will be less friction. And try to keep ur mans penis inside you lol i know how wierd that sounds but if he pulls out and goes back in it fills u with air. These have worked for me so give them a try! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): Is there any way to make it stop?? Me and my boyfriend have great sex and he is amazing, although i now know its natural i feel better inside. However i feel like i want to give sex up alltogether (even though its amazing) because i get so embarrassed and upset!
Maybe if he reassured me he was ok with it i would feel a little bit better, but i am an emotional person and struggle with self-confidence and image issues, i really didnt want the stress and complication of ANY type of sexual issue when i thought it was going so great.
A reply would be great! - Miss X
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): Thank God this is normal,i thought there was something wrong with me and for some funny reason i thought i was 'funny farting' cause i sometimez slept naked..lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): I FOUND THE SOLUTION!!! fanny exercises....has anyone realise that their fanny has started farting only after they've have sex continuously???? well its because our fannys are changing shape and size to prevent this or tighten them up a little just tense downstairs for 5-10 minutes daily! try having sex doggy after 2 weeks and reply bak to this forum
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Oh my gosh. You have no idea how relieved I am. I lost my virginity last June in a short-term relationship and it happened once, but because we broke up shortly after I thought nothing of it because I knew I wouldn't be active for a while. I went to a party last weekend and had a one-night stand and it happened, I tried to pass it off by saying "wasn't me" (probably the stupidest cover up ever, since we were the only two there) but he laughed and said it was natural. I'm now seeing him and panicked about a repeat performance so finding this has made me feel enormously better. I feel more confident now and don't have to fear the next time I have sex. Thank you guys :)
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reader, pinkybasil  +, writes (13 May 2009):
hey people,
omg i am so glad that this happens to other people too..
I always seem to do it and it's not just during doggy either.
Since me and my bf broke up we've had lots of arguments and 1 thing he threw in my face was that i fanny fart and that it disgusts him..
I was hurt by this and have been searching high and low as to what causes this and what i can do to prevent it. As i have seen so far, the only thing is to not let the penis go too far out as this lets lots of air in..
Thank you people for making me realise that this is a natural thing and i'm not in some way weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): I hate it, especially when you start thinking about it during sex, just makes it happen more.
Last night, I saw my ex and he invited me to the bar for a drink and we're just friends. I was wearing some clothes that made me look like a french air hostess lol and my ex is never ever interested in talking to me, but he said "hey, you look great tonight, very sophisticated" and I was very impressed with his compliment lol because he really broke my heart before.
Anyway, he was walking me home, next thing I know, we're all over eachother kissing. He takes me back to his and we have sex, I started to think about fanny farting half way and he pushed by bum over for doggy and he fucked me till I climaxed and he came. I thought 'phew'. Until i turned over and one let rip....in his face! It's not even my boyfriend, its my ex! He's okay with me but I'm sure hes put off for life! Good luck girls xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): This happened to me last night the guy i'm "seeing" kept switching positions and when he was on top a massive wet one came out!!! I was like oh sorry and he just carried on although he did seem a bit put off! I've not heard from him today and i'm worrying so much. This is why you should be totally comfortable with each other before having sex! Oh well if he cant get over it then he's not worth my time. I asked the girls at work about it and they all said its totally normal!!! Thank god i'm not the only one!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Oh god! I'm really glad I'm not alone in this emabarassing situation! Just the other night, my boyfriend and I had sex before going out and it happened for the first time. It just kept happening to me -- I couldnt stop laughing from embarassment and he was just laughing with me at how embarassed I was. Thankfully, he concluded that it was all natural and he was 'proud' to have 'forced' that kind of response from my body. Needless to say, he teases me about it here and there, but it's all in good humor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): LMAO reading these replies has made me feel sooo much better!! I have been 'fanny farting' like a trooper since having my son, and I never did before that so I thought it was cos I'm 'lose' now or something... with my ex although it was soooooo embarassing at first we became very comfortable and open with eachother and it didn't bother him. But now we've split up and I'm seeing someone else, we had sex for the 1st time a few days ago and it really stops me from being adventuress in the bedroom! Like I told him to go on top and be slooooow, not to pull in and out too much using the excuse that I'm sore after having my baby lol. But he didn't come and the sex was pretty shit cos of it, when I really wantin a good old fashioned fuck session. Urrrgh I dunno what to do, I know it's normal but this guy is verrrrry hot which makes it even worse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): oh my god . . . i was with my fb today and we changed to doggy style and it happened . . . so i quickly changed to mssionary and it happened again. . . he didnt say anything and seemed to enjoy himself anyway... lol . . . glad i am not the only one
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): haha happened to me today, lots. i was just like :|. but me and my boyfriend just laughed about it for ages. ahah.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): I can’t believe how many gals this has happened to its so embarrasing, first time it happened to me it was AFTER we had sex, then I was lay down next to my ex boyfriend and one just ripped, the noise was so embarrasing I wanted to cry, so instead I start coughing thinking I can cover them up, WHAT A MISTAKE more little ones came out I was sooo embarrased. Thing is I have never been with a guy that’s okay with it and I never laugh it off I hate it so much, I hope someone finds something that can stop them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): ooohhh myy daiiz! so glad i found this ahaha. am 15 nd been with my boyfriends for nearly 3 years! ... we've only just started having sex.
i thought there were something wrong me so i've not sed nethin about it too him yet... but after reading this its made me realise it happens to everyone nd am normal ahha..
they are like one of the funniest things that happen tho. ahahaha! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Well, having read about them in magazines I thought this was something that happened to other people and only as one boyfriend said if your fanny was too big. Stupid and naive i believed all this at the time - what a load of crap but then I was young!!!!!!!!!I didn't think it would ever happen to me, but then again the sex has never been all that great with previous boyfriends (as you can tell they were not all that intelligent). Anyway, the current one has a large penis and the other day doing doggy he was pulling almost out and then back and it just started. The loudest thing, and since it was the middle of the night it seems all the louder, every thrust resulted in a huge eruption, he just carried on but did ask if it was my fanny since it would not stop, after a while I just flipped over in embarrassment.He just laughed and we carried on, the next morning I tried to apologise stupidly and got a big kiss to shut me up and a repeat performance to stop me worrying,One this is for certain ladies (not to boast about him again but he does have a tree trunk between his legs, although I'm not just with him for that) it is certainly not as I was lead to believe about women being too large. we have to take it nice and slow at first as I am too tight to bring him inside me, there is no way it could be if I was too large.Have fun with it and enjoy, sex is for fun and laughs as well as the physical pleasure and fanny farts can be the funniest things there are and make you human!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Hahaa... Well OMGG..Me and my boyfriend are only 16 and the other night it happened to me.. EMBARESSING... Hahaaa..I was shockedd haha.. We were just laughing sooooo muchh... Kind of awkward at the timee because he wouldn't shut up laughing.. Lol.. Butt after he was like "I didn't think you was capable of that" Lol.. We have just started joking about it.. After we had sex we was watching a film and he said "You can't help it can you" whilst laughing and so I was laughing and Nooo we can't help it and nooo we cant feel it.. It is just natural and it happenss... to EVERYONE!!I think I will be warning him next time to be preparedd lol.. !!I wass bothered about it, but now I am really not because he understand and I am comfortable and after we had a laugh... he just said "I don't mind babe".. and kissed me on my head lol..Soooo just dont worry about it girlsss.. Hahaaa...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): I think fanny farting is nothing to be ashamed about ... everybody does it. I've recently had sex with my boyfriend and as we changed positions into doggy one slipped out i looked at him and i was so red it was soooo embarrassing ... but he just kissed me on the forehead and said "Thats so sexy" and carried on i was so overwhelmed that he didn't mind me doing it =] xxxx
I'm so happy to see that im not the only one =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): One thing you can do to avoid fanny farts is to put your legs between his during doggy! Don't open them so much or a lot of wind will go inside. As soon as you're done lie on your back open your legs and press your stomach to the air will naturally come out. (This works for me!)
Tell your boyfriend as soon as he asks for doggystyle to not be surprised if a little wind goes inside and oviously it will have to come out.
I'm so comfortable in my relationship that we both just laugh a bit when it happens. He even tries to help me get the air out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): Hey Ladies
OMG!! this has been happening to me lately!! OKAii OKAii i thawt that thee myt've been something wrong with me... my bf just laughed and said he thawt it was cute.. but i was like
ewwwwwww as if
but he said it felt great & yes it was during doggy... but it was just as he was pulling out.. i think im gonna try those pelvic floor excercises!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): haha This thread has had me in hysterics becuase I know how embarassing it is!!! I've had the same problem, it has happened during sex and omg afterwards too! I try to hold it in or something becuase it's soooo humiliating!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): SOLUTION:
Hello ladies, Well, i too had this once, and i spoke to one of my girlfriends about it. She told me that after sex, put two fingers inside yourself and open your vagina to expel any trapped air. Now i haven't tried it yet, but it makes sense. I am hoping however that it won't make a sound. Open wide!! Let me know if it works gals!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This forum is getting to serious I think. Ive been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, although she has never done a fanny fart that I am aware of... IT WOULD NOT BOTHER ME IN THE SLIGHTEST. I think she is the sexiest thing ever and if the guy makes a big deal of it he's an idiot. Dont feel embarrased at all girls its normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): thank god so many people have had this experience other than me,
it always happens to me even in the mornings when i stretch...does that happen to anyone too?
anyway its always whenever he wants me to go on top that i get that problem and so now whenever he does want me on top i have gotten him to roll me off (in a sexy way of course) so it prevents it!
hope that helps anyone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This Happens With Me Too, I Just LAugh About It Though, I Mean My Boyfreind & I Have Been Together For 4 Months But On & Off For 3 Years, We Have Great Sex & I Mean GREAT! :D
But One Day Though When We Was Doing Doggy I Let One Out, & the other time was when i put my legs up into the air and he clumb on top and when we had stopped i let one out again,
it's really embarrasing but i just start giggling so it shows my boyfriend that it dosent bother me.
But my boyfreind says he likes it when i do it and i'm like erghhh
Is it the boys fault or the girls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): Oh this has made me laugh so much! its nice to know this happens to everyone. It's happened 2 times for me, the first time I didn't know what to do, I just died in embarrassment. I'm not sure that my boyfriend could tell the difference, I think he thought it was a normal fart. I didn't see him again! The second was with my current boyfriend very recently. It's the first time he's actually cum in me. omg! I got off of him and it just wouldn't stop, he started laughing so I laughed and with each laugh more noise came out. It was a beetroot occasion but luckily we can laugh it off. My bf said "Wow.... I've created quite a vacuum there".
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): yes this is majorly embarrasing!! happens to me all the time! soooooo humiliating. after sex i try to hold it in until my man goes out of the room to get tissuse to mop up the "cum" and then quickly let it all out so he dosent hear. its so loud!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): omggg this happened to me earlier ths afternoon n never been so embarrased b4 in my lifeeee
me and my bf were having sex and it was great as normal and then did doggy i think he obs got a bit carried away and then came inside me sorry for going into detail we norm dont do this because i wasnt on the pill but i went back on it after this happened i went to stand up to get changed n all i heard wasss that i was likeee shitttt reli embarrasedd and sat there for 5 mins cos i was 2 scafred 2 gt back upp so was trying to distract him 2 get out the room incaseeee he hasnt mentioned it but worried of it happening again nowww :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): Ah reading these comments have made me feel sooo much better! its happened to me with all my boyfriends, and the first time it happened i was soooooooo humiliated! i thought it was just me!
the first guy it happened with didnt know what it was so he ended up laughing at me which made me feel reali uncomfortable..asswhole. haha and the other one was reali comforting about it.
i don care what anyone says its proper humiliating and can reali ruin the mood afterwards !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Haha oh my this thread has me in fits of laughter. Same as you lot, I'm so glad I'm not the only one! Me and my, new, boyfriend were doing doggy and it was all fine but then he pulled out and so as I rolled over I let out the most mighty trumpet noise, and I continued rolling it just continued blowing away. Like seriously, totally embarrassing. My boyfriend like jumped away looking shit scaaaared like what the fuuuccckk... He then got dressed.But we laughed about it afetrards - however I think he thinks it was a proper real fart.. which it wasn't.. I'm not quite sure what to say to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): I am afraid that i dont know what causes vaginal farting but i do know that if you have more orgasms(about 2 or 3 per week)it can help to prevent vaginal farting
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): lol @ all these storys AND how long this thread has been going. the most embarrassing for me was the first time i fanny farted it was just after sex i got up to go to the bathroom and with every step i took another one slipped out. i couldn't stop laughing which just made it worse! hilarious though!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): First time it happened to me, I wasnt even having sex!!
I was with a ridiculously fit guy who was alot older than me and we were in bed. I was trying to impress him obviously but I was quite drunk so i didnt really go to plan...lol
when we were really passionately kissing I put one of my legs behind my head.. I thought this would be really sexy (I was drunk, ok?? lol) but instead he sort of just laffed and said "What ARE you doing?" If this wasnt embaressing enough he pulled away and i let out a MASSIVE 'Fu Cough'.
Now I wasnt just embaressed i was MORTIFIED. but if this wasnt bad enough I then got up... and walked towards the door, but every step i took i let out another! I could help it!!
So basically that day, I died inside. LOL
but quite recently it happened again, but my new boyfriend is much more mature, and although when it happened during sex i was so embaressed I just wanted to roll up in the duvet and die, he just laffed and said "Dont worry babe, it happens all of time! Its natural!"
which made me feel better lol!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): yeah every girl goes through it. just like me. but its natural for some wind to get trapped up there. when me and my partner was having sex today it happend and we just laughed about it because we are so comfertable together. it just showd me how close we really are
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): The worst thing ever!!
i agree with you girls, it is soo embarressing.
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we still have mad sex. I've done doggy a hundred times but the other day, during an extremely great shagfest, he flipped me over into doggy. its usually my favourite position. Then suddenly, with every thrust, it came. Loud and angry. I was sooo embarressed. Begging into the pillow for it to stop, but it didnt. I jumped up, he looked thoroughly confused!! I wanted to die. I was so embarressed and scared of a massive teasing spree that i began to blame imaginary chest pains and started to cry. Luckily he didnt mention it. But im seeing him tommorow and am 100% sure that we will have sex. Im dead scared its going to happen again and im sure this time he will mention it. Oh no!!!
Im gonna try all these things you have been saying. Earlia, i tried getting into doggy position, entering my fingers in and out and then pushing, or opening the hole and pushing, hopefully it will all be out and i wont have to deal with this again!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): OMG! thankgod im not the only one. ive been going out with this guy for almost a year we have sex quite often and its never happened. i use to love it so much. one time i was doing doggy and i heard small ones abit scared but didnt put me off. a few days later we were at it again and we were on the sofa doing doggy and it came out to change positions and there it came. i read about them in magazine i never knew they were so loud it went silent. then my boyfriend burst out into laughter i went so red. i soon explained to him what it was and conciously laughed along with him i couldnt get over this had happened to me. i havent had sex since im too scared it will happen again what a major turn off! but after reading all of these has made me see it in a different way. i find it funny. just scared i meet a hot guy an it happens.
but thanks for this i now know im not alone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): heyy,, im so relieved to hear im not the only one!! gosh it is the most embaressing thing ever it puts you off having sex!
the best thing to do i find is when you feel your vagina filling up with air try not to suk it in just put the tips off your fingers inside nd stretch your hole a bit and push whilst you fingertips are inside opening your hole. this should get rid off the air and prevent the 'queefe's' happening lol
well i find it works with me
gooodd luckk!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Oh my, haha.
It happened to me the other night with my boyfriend.
I was on top of my boyfriend, and he kept coming out which of course caused air to get down and round the womany bits. We changed position into doggy - and it happened just as started to take me.
I was so embarassed. I jumped up straight away and went bright red. He was like "what the hell was that!" .. we landed up joking about it - but I was so red I wanted to die.
I know it's completely natural but it's just so majorly embarassing. Although I must say that reading these posts has made me feel alot better knowing that I'm not the only one that wants to die of embarassment when it happens.
So thankyou!! :D :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): ha ha these are making me laugh and feel quite relieved i thought it was only me.it usually happens to me during doggy sytle just after he pulls out i actually want to die when it happens the wosrt thing is you dont know when its all gone so u stand up and there its goes theres no way to hold it in.Ive turned 2 putin music on quite loudly but this cant happen all the time so i simply explain to my man what it is why it happens and that it happens to everybody(altough at first i didnt believe this lol)The first time it happended was during a 69er!!! he thought it came from my bum so he was relieved when i explained.what we must remember is that its usually only us girls who find it embarasin the men are probaly worryin about other things!!! fart on girls !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): How humiliating! I have only ever had two in my entire life, and I can positively say I never want for it to happen again.In particular, this was awful. I was making out with my boyfriend from above, and he was vigerously fingering me. It was the perfect moment and I was going wild. And, I suppose unlike other times there was no pre warning as to it happening. But, none the less, it did. And I cannot begin to explain how humiliated I truly was. It was not one cheeky little pack of combustion, it was the sound of a pack of wolves sworming out of my vagina. I had absolutely no clue whether or not to laugh. I just stared down at him in a cheeky manner, ready to cry. Luckily, he laughed and held my hand. And for a minute I tried to carry on teasing him, but in the end I couldn't take it seriously. I laughed and laughed and laughed, and the more I laughed, the more trapped air leaked out. And the make matters worse, it was an extremely wet one. Squelch and pop, all in one! I'm aware this is completely natural, but this is not one natural element I am wishing to settle for. And I have absolutely no clue how to prevent it! Although, a tip for you lovely laddies is, when you are fortuenate enough to have a little heads up for this grotesque happening, do not try to suck it further up, that will make it far worse. Instead, firm your legs and thighs together, roll into a position that you are at ease, and merely take slow deep breaths. Try talking too, to cover it up a little! You should find that it will ease out far slower, easier and far less noisy!Good luck with future 'out spoken guests!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): This happens to me all the time, once i was having sex and i did a double one out my bum and one out my vagina, the only trouble is about 3 guys just blurted inside me and i really needed a number 2 from the anal. and i splattered poo everywhere out my bum :( and cum from the other end !!! it was so embarassing but even more so when my cat started lapping it all up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): OMG cant stop laughing at everyones storys but I think mine is the worst. I was with my ex for 2 years and didnt do one once!! but mind you the sex was veeeery boring and only in the same position.
Now with my new man it has happened everytime!!! but we are always changing positions ALOT and every time u roll over stand up lie down....it happens!!! It happens all the time and try this one I think its the MOST embarising EVER after already doing a few so that was embarising enough, I was more or less on his face and he was u know having a ball down there and YEP one came out(WHILE I WAS ON HIS FACE!!!!!) OMFG worst ever!!!!!!!!
Theres nothing you can do, he never says anything but faaark it makes you go straight back to square one, you could be just about to cum then that happens :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): omg seriously every time I have sex it happens and I don't get turned on because I'm too paranoid that its gonna happen! WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO US? none of my friends say it happens to them.. :\I'm gonna try those kegel excersises! apparently it prevents them cos it tightens your muscles. I don't care what you say ITS NOT ENJOYABLE OR FUNNY ITS EMBARRASSING!!!!! it happend last night and my bf laughed but I didnt, so i just rolled over and went to sleep saying I was put off :| I think hes put off!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): hahaha, dude i remember the first time i queefed or whatever and i was so embarrased, i tried playin it off by laughing and like before i did i was makin out with that guy hardcore at the time and when i queefed he just laid back down on the couch and it was really awkward lol i dont think he knew what it was either [it happened after we had sex and the air decided to come out when i was just on top of him makin out] lol but yah anyways, its really normal, the way to prevent it is while your having sex try not get get the penis to slip out because when that happens, your vagina that was opened up fills up with air and when he puts it back in it gets stuck, and also when you like get off of each other to switch positions or w/e you like close your legs and try to get in a position to where it will close off that access for air to get in as you get off of each other... this worked for me i learned this information on my own not from anybody else so im hoping this helps everybody! lol its happened to me A LOT and i totally hate it i wish it didn't exist! lol...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): OMG! LOL I will hopefully be ending the drought very soon, but I am terrified of the dreaded 'queefs'...sounds much better than fanny fart!The first time it happened to me was also doggy style and well when he withdrew it sounded like an explosion! He walked off to another room.....we had finished...I found out later it was to laugh his head off. I was mortified. As I was scrambling around to put my clothes on and regain some dignity...I was trumping for England....it was so sooo loud and I was also mortified! I brought it up the next day and he was ok, but said if it had happened during sex it would have been a bit of a turn off! I just could not laugh about it at the time....it took me ages to tell my girlfriends.I had hoped to figure out how to prevent them, but I guess the answer is you CANT! So just have to laugh about it and hope that laughing dont make you fart some more! Tnanks for making me feel normal! x
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reader, popgoesthedoublef +, writes (8 November 2008):
OMG!!!!! I remember the first time i ever did a tuppence trump - it was back in '96 at my cousins b'day party in the hamptons... it was like an explosion from my lady lips. My boyfriend Larry thought something was wrong with me... i mean, OMFFG... i was totally embarrassed, we ended up breaking up after our 2 day romance.Then it happened again more recently when i moved to the city. I went out with my girlfriends and you know how it happens... i met a guy in walmart (by the fannypacks ha!) and we hit it off... went on a few dates then the dreaded 1st time happened PARP PARP from my panties... lol... i was SO embarassed :( i mean, what a bad time to have a foof cough!When chuck just laughed though i was so relieved - chuck told me he loves me for my fanny and everything that comes out of it - now i can do it whenever. So girlfriends - embrace your fanny - an if he dont love your fanny, he dont love you!Love,Sara-Lou WienstienX :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): Lol! The dreaded fanny fart. Sit ups at the gym usually brings it out in me. Good thing the music is usually so loud! Most guys find it funny, if they dont they are tools.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Iv had a right giggle at some of these replys! It happens to me too and its usually when doing it doggy style or when my legs are over his shoulders. I usually make a point of saying "that was my fanny!" cos Id be mortified if he thought Id 'bottom burped' infront of him lol. Either that or blame him and say "look what you made me do!" haha.
I know its natural but my concern was why it happens. I wouldn't say I was big down there but ex's are very evil and the fact Iv had 2 kids doesn't help my insecurities!!!
Anyways it seems to be more common than I first thought so that makes me feel a bit better haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Gah!
Ive just started havign sex and my Boyfriend and his friend were looking up Porn Bloopers.
Disgusting I Know, but one of the girls did a "fanny fart" and ever since I got told about it, ive been doing them, I dont want to have sex when I do this, my boyfriends stare just makes me curl up and never want to have sex. It happens every time we change position..
I want it to stop, but after reading these, I know im not alone ad find it quite funny, though I know i wont the next time it happens....
Thanks all
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): Really, really wish there was some way to prevent it. I know it's normal, but I feel like a complete plank whenever I let one rip - it makes me want to stop having sex and just curl up in bed, with the duvet over me.My boyfriend's never made fun of me, but I feel so stupid and embarrassed. They sound gross, and they turn me off completely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): All these comments are so funny.
First time this happened to me was this morning and as you know it's embarrassing, but my boyfriend makes jokes about them all the time!
Ever since I've met him it's been something he's found hilarious, he pretends to make fanny fart noises if the wind lifts up someones skirt or they sit down funny.
I don't think he heard the first time, but about five minutes later i did it again right on top of his penis.
*cringe*
At least there are places like this to laugh about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): Ha, This is great, I thought I was the only one ;D
It happened to me the second time I ever had sex (Ive only ever done it with my current boyfriend) and we both found it hilarious.
Its embarassing, but thankgod when the lights are off he cant see my red face, haha!
The worst part is that I can never seem to tell when its going to come, it just shoots out really unexpectedly!
Reading some of these posts have made me feel alot better about it, so thankyou everyone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): Hey everyone,No one should be worrying about fanny farts, they are what stops sex from being so serious!I has having sex the other night - doggy - and wanted to change position, as soon as i moved, all the air that has been pumped in from having sex from behind all just gushed out, it was so loud!! It's happened before so i pushed the rest of it outso i could continue with sex (the rest of this wasn't so loud.)I then got on top of my boyfriend(of 4 years) and fanny farted on his penis!! oh my god, it was hilarious!! I could not stop laughing, imature i know but it was so funny! It was so loud! I've always been able to do Queefs with out having sex too. Just lay on your back, kness up, feet flat on the floor and rise you bum, but so your vagina hole is pointing up to the ceiling, you can hear it fill up, then just push out all the air, something about it is quite satisfying.I read on Wikipedia that you should NOT get your man to blow up there, apparently it can be fatal?!?! Scary! So whoever said that in one of these posts, stop doing it! Any way, i hope none you you women/girls are ashamed because it is just as natural as anything else that goes on with your body. If your man can't see the funny side and makes you feel silly - He's sleeping on the couch! Maybe if he makes you feel stupid show him all these posts from lots of NORMAL women!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): Great!! reading these posts has been so good!I suggested we change position (doggy) well, I regretted that decision lolGawd, I have never laughed so hard in all my life it was that funny I was snort laughing (another first)I was still farting out loud like 5 minutes later.....all in a row too long and loud! Have tried every position under the sun including doggy and Ive never had this before...ah well, looking forward to the next installement lolMr seemed okay about it he laughed with me or I spose at me lol Cheers everyone :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): ha ha ha! the sad part is that i actually googled "fanny fart" in an attempt to find some way to prevent it. no luck.my boyfriend justs laughs about it but i always feel like such a tube when it happens! the first time it happened was after doggy like a lot of u have said, but at first he thought it was a proper fart! omg! then mortified i had to explain what it was, tryin desperately to think of another phrase that wasnt "fanny fart".not pleasant. though at least i am not alone in my fartiness.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): OMG!!!!!Every one has been saying omg omg but it is truely an OMG moment!Before I'd even had sex I could fanny fart from doing sit ups etc which was awkward going to the gym and fanny farting for England!Anyway... when I lost my virginity, throughout missonary and doggy I was farting away, which was horrible!Am so happy previous writers have also suffered!And great comments, has been a giggle reading them!I think that positions (sex or not) where you are letting air in and then moving, so to push the air out is obv the culprit of the fanny farting....just keep very still and let your partner do all the work!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): omg i am so happy im not the only one! it happens to me too, and my boyfriend i dont think he gets it, he like teases me about it. and then the first time we tried 69 i sat up, and it came out, right in his face! i was SOOOOO embarrassed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): I wonder why this is called vagina wind problem.The fanny farting happens when we have really enjoyable, propper sex, I mean my wife and me. when she is about to come down her pussy is so open , so eager to take more in. Hearing this sound means that she enjoys sex in 100%, and I know I do the right job. in fact, both sides have to realise that fanny farting is a sign of ultimate women's engagment in having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): hey
i had my first fanny farts the other day when i had sex with a lad i rele like. we are just getting to know each other and i got SOO embaressed!!! i heard him laugh a little so im hoping it didnt put him off too much. this has only happened when hes on top and my legs are wrapped around his body - not in doggy style or anything tho!! wierd.. x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): LOL!
Ive found it does happen after doggy.i find it so embarassing though! The first time it happened i was so embarasssed! We both laughed it off though lol. You could always deny it was u and blame it on ur man haha!
loved the comments,very amusing lol.
the correct word 4 it btw is a 'queefe' lmao
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): I feel way much better knowing I'm not the only one who experience this. But... it's awful that when it happens you while having sex you can't laugh about it because your boyfriend thinks its gross and you're so embarrassed you can't even continue...
aaw so sad I can't prevent or stop them... they just go out..!
and... yeah... like the majority here, it happens to me while experiencing doggy style or any pose where he gives me from the back..
-Laura
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): stay on the bottem, i need help myself lol x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): Im so glad so many other people have this problem! i REALLY want to know how its caused its sooo embarasing! it is a put off when i have sex with my boyfriend and everytime he pulls out after goin fast it makes a noise. or when ithink GREAT it hasnt happend il sit up and it hapens. Its horible! i dont want to carry on having sex after that it takes ages to get into it again. Its so unatractiv i find. i want it to stop!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): omg me and my boyfriend had just done doggy and then went to change postions and as i turned over the loudest fanny fart id had ever done slipped out he looked at me and we both laughed we were in really good moods and couldn't stop laughin but because we're so close it dusnt bother him it did me but knowing that we can laugh about it relie helps hey its sex and its ment 2 be fun nd any lad tht cnt except fanny fartin nd laugh with u isnt worth your time afterall u cant stop it its natural plus it is his fault for pulling out so much so cheer up girls its all part of the experience x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): oh dear this isn't a great thing to happen right when he's pulled out and then there it is the dreaded sound of a fanny fart. the other day we'd just finished having sex and i got up and there it was but oh no it wasn't just the one it was a string of them i didn't dare walk cos everytime i did id fanny fart i was so embarrsed but i was horrified but i couldn't stop laughing. afterall it is natural and my boyfriend dusn't mind one bit which makes me feel so much better just laugh about it as its all us fanny farters can do xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): some of these answers had me in absolute hysterics... i get fanny farts pretty frequently, though i don't find doggy style the culprit like many of you, it's more often when i have both or one leg over his shoulders, or afterwards when movin into a cuddling position (sooo romantic)... i find that if you just put your fingers in for a moment and use ur muscles to push the air out u can avoid sudden surprises ... during sex theres rele nothing you can do.. laughing is the key-- if he finds it gross or won't try to make you feel relaxed about it, he's immature and lacks a sense of humour, find someone more worthy of ur sexy time lol :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): its really getting me down, mine is just another problem after child birth. im 23 and its happening all the time. ill just be lying ther and itl appe. HOW DO I STOP IT?
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reader, the ex wife +, writes (24 July 2008):
 There is nothing you can do about it. As Sue the Sex Expert says "just laugh it off". It's caused from suction in the vagina and there is nothing you can do. Just giggle. It actually is funny! Some guys like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): the first time my boyfriend went down on me to "finish me off" after we'd been having sex i let out a lovely fanny fart right in his face. now what could be more embarrassing than that? but we just collapsed in a heap laughing our heads off.
now he calls me "musical lips"
lovely.
i think my problem is that my pelvic floor is hypertonic on one side and not as strong on the other side xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Hey Girls..
I found that after doggy style the best way to avoid the fanny farts are to move slowly.. maybe add a sexy comment in whilst moving or kiss whilst moving.
dont know if this helps you guys but helps me.
p.s. the worst is when a guy cums inside of you and you stand up then its like a wet one EWWWWW!!! is sooooo embarrasing but if you can both laugh about it you may have a good future together
GOOD LUCK LADIES!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): All vaginal wind is not caused by or occur during intercourse..
having a child as well does tend to increase the vaginal farts which can happen even when you are not having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): ive just read a few of these msgs and one says sumthing like she uses tampax when doing exercise cos of these little love puffs im sorry but id rather make a puff then get TSS
becarefull tou should know not to use them unless its your menstrual week
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): At least most of you only fanny fart during sex.OMG you cant imagine how mortified and anxious i am whenever i am at work or in public.Over the last 6 months i have fanny farted several whilst at work,infront of my collegues and i swear i nearly died of embarrassment.It happened again today in the next room (door open)to my employer,i managed to rustle some equipment until all the air had come out(to disguise the sound)I am really upset over this and getting anxious about even going to work now.I dont know what to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I have had puzzy farts happen when i was having sex with my ex wife. I thought it was great she was a little uptight but she didnt say any thing or laugh. We were in missionary but the guy can go in deeper in doggy so that may be why it happens more in that position. I have heard it was because the fit was so good not because the girl is loose. so i think thats cool
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): WOW!I'm chuffed ive found this!really cheered me up.The first time this "farting" happened to me was Doggy.As soon as i turned over the noise was immense!sooooo embarressing i couldve died :|We laughed it off Thankfully.but since ive been making sure he doesnt "slip out" by clenching the muscles. This helps ALOT as hardly any air can get in.well.its NATURAL!!! guys shouldnt be put off.ive 'ad a good giggle reading all of your comments.and am glad your not all completely mortified.THANK YOU!!!!!XDkeep up the fabulous humour :)xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): omg i'm sooo glad this happens to loads of people!
its never happened to me before and i had sex with this lad i know last night, but it was my first time with him.
everything was going well and then it happened
i was absolutely mortified
thankfully i heard him laugh which hopefully means he wasn't to bothered, so i just laughed aswell, but it kept happening!!!
but yeah doggy style is really the problem, it never happend in any other position.
i just hope he didn't tell any of his mates. i'd be so embarrased!!!
i hope it hasn't put him off and i hope its happened to him with someone else so he knows its normal!!
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (1 July 2008):
 Why would you want to stop it? It's great! Only ever happened with one girlfriend, but she was a real turn-on in every way. In fact, her muscle spasms were sometimes so strong that she once pushed my penis out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): I was with a guy i truely loved and it happened, but we didn't proper laugh about it, but did just smile, giggle and carry on, it was natural we both knew.After splitting with him i began dating a guy, and it happened. He gave me a funny look and asked what was that. Being the bimbo i am i pretended i hadnt heard anything and responded "what was what?" We caried on and it didn't happen again, but after that i always insisted on have loud rock music on, just in case. I told him the loud music was a turn on! Lol. Which it kinda became after a while, as it creates a good atmosphere.A year or so on I'm now with a pretty well off guy whos a few years older. It happened once and I just moaned loudly, he was cleary distracted by my enjoyment, but omg did i feel pressured after that. We dont like the same music so cant go down that route, moaning worked, but i cant everytime, ive found that putting my fingers in to let it out slow does help you control it, but isnt always silent :( Flattery works, saying its cosa their size/technique/moves. Which it kinda is. Or i once even distracted from the moment by blaming it on a bad angle and that it hurt me, so as that i didnt have to carry on (for fear of it happening again) but without that being the reason for it! (bimbo moment again)Hopefully il soon feel comfortable with my boyf to ignore/embrace it, but im certainly not gonna let it stop me having sex. If they are dicks about it then they're not worth being with. I'm pretty certain that boys are 1,000,000 times grosser!Also, i find missionary causes fannyfarts far more that doggy. Just me on that one i guess. I do yoga also. Prob all interlinked as seems to be a common factor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): hey so i was reading everyones answers and stories it made me feel a little better, but when i was sleeping with my bf and he was on top it happened and it was horriably loud and happened quitew a few times and so embarrasing and on the way home that he told me that was the best he has ever had, is he saying that to make me feel better? totally embarrased still and really off of sex for a while thats for sure! what can ya do to stop it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): Hey all
Just been researching this stuff, cus I recently got a new boyfriend and we have just started being intimate, after about the fifth time of having sex, this happened with me on top, it has happened before with a previous long term partner but when it happened with this boyfriend, I actually cried. I am the kind of person that gets upset when embarassed and I just stop and burst into tears and hid under the covers. To my surprise, he told me to 'come here' and he cuddled me and made me feel better. I knew what caused it and i tried to explain it, im just scared it will happen again cus it is actually 100% humiliating. My boyfriend seemed to be okay with it but I dont think this will be that case if it happens all the time. I just wish there was a way to stop this because it ruins amazing sex for me anyway. Do you think i should tell my man that this seems to happen to loads of people and that I am not alone? Thing is he is more experienced than myself and said its never happened before... :( can someone just reassure me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): there is a way ov getin it out the way b4 sex it sounds disgusting but if u get ur guy to blow up there 1st it all comes out and u wont do it again during sex i find it worked TRY IT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): I am actually already feeling better by reading these replies because like some I only get it during "doggy style" and for the first time with my new boyfriend it happened last night, and he just laughed coz he thinks its all down to him being so good at sex! haha! I had bin putting off doing doggy style for about 4 months, but being his favourite position I knew it was time. I think the only way to prevent it is by doin simple and complex positions, but wheres the fun in that heh? If your lucky enuff to have a bf tht understands then go for it! Fart away!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): It is actually really embarassing but Im lucky enough to have a boyfriend who doesn't seem put off by it, he knows it happens. In my case I find that only after or during certain positions the "Vaginal wind problems" occur. Last night was the first time the "problem" happened and we had been together for a gd four months, and it happened due to doing a weird and wonderful position. So jus a suggestion but maybe keeping the positions complex and simple, if u do find it too embarassing to continue this may improve things. It works for me! Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): oh my god it happens all the time!! it actually put me off sex for 7 months! all my friends sed that they did it occasionally, but it happens like all the time 4 me!! i dnt want to move afta it happens because im scared more will cum out!! so happy reading theese, made me c im not the only person here that does em!! they are soo loud aswell!! just want to die wen it happens!! sooooooooo embarrising!! and hw do u tell the boy that its natural?? they just look at you and look reli put off by it!
hu eva invents a cure 4 it is a pure geneius!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): OMG it happened with my first bf, and i knewit could happen but during sex!? i was so embarassed that i couldnt stop laughing i thought shiit i hope it doesnt happpen again, but it REALLY DOES.haaha it IS his fault, when he pulls out half way through sex, air rushesin to replace where his penis was, then he goes back in, and the air rushes out causing a loud 'PHLHLH' sound.delightful LOL, guys should get over it
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Haha! The answers have made me feel so much better, i dunno if anyone agrees but when it does happen u think that it must only ever happen to you. Its bloody doggy style that does it! Happened to me last night but he thought it was him haha and i wasn't about to correct him! it wasn't to loud anyways. I can't wait for a big loud one because i no me and my boyf will both laugh it off! This site has made me feel so much better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): OMG!!! i feel so much better now that ive read some of these responses...
my first time, i thought it was something wrong with me and i was so ashamed that i just made my boyfriend stop and i went to the bathroom and hid in there...
but now i know its perfectly normal..!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): well ive just turned 17 and i had the worst experience last night, we were having sex, and i was on top, my boyfriend was doing it really hard and fast and it kept coming out, all of a sudden, a big loud farting sound erupted from my vagina and lasted about 5 seconds, it seemed like it was going on for ages and i kept having little bursts of them afterwards, i was mortified, straight away i stood up and moved to a corner of the room, i didn't know what had just happened and i was so embarrassed, i thought something was wrong with me and i just burst into tears! he was shocked and started laughing. then realizing that i was so upset he tried to comfort me saying that everyone does it, but i couldnt believe him and i thought he was just saying that to make me feel better, but it wasn't making me feel better, its really knocked my confidence now and i felt really uneasy around him, its really put me off, and i feel really embarrassed around him and im really nervous he will tell all his mates. i really don't know what do to, and hearing that sometimes you get little bursts of them a few days after i darnt see him! its really shook me up! thank-you to all of your comments you've really helped me to see that im not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): So this isn't associated with having a 'loose' vagina?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): there is really nothin to do about it. i have been fanny farting since i was 15. it doesnt stop
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): OH MY GOD !! Fanny Farts Are Sooooo Embarrassing.. Me And My Boyfriend Were Doing Doggy.. Then After He Came, I Got Up And It Just Like Dropped Out !! I Asked WTF Was That.. He Said A Fanny Fart !! Then I Stood Up And Another Came Out.. I Was SO Embarrassed !! Put Me Off Sex A Little !! He Didnt Say Much.. But I Couldnt Stop Thinking About It !! HOW DO YOU PREVENT THEM !!! HELP !!!!! (Mod Note: couldn't stop laughing at this)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): i never used to have a problem with "love puffs" until recently. . .i think it might be because i've been away from my boyfriend for a while (which totally bummed me out) and we've been having fast sex ever since we got back together, which totally turns me on and makes me very lubricated, which may be why. another factor may be because we love doing it doggy style or with one leg over his shoulder. my advice is if it ever happens, have a giggle, keep enjoying the sex, and talk about it afterwards so that you can see if your partner is bothered by it. they shouldn't be bothered since it's not really something you can prevent unless you stick to one style of sex where you don't "puff", which we ALL know can become a bit of a bore. HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THOSE LOVE PUFFS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Ha am i ever glad i found this site!!!
It's all very good and well to 'laugh about it' with your boyfriend for those who may be comfortable with him and been with him a long time. but what about if it's the first time you have sex with this guy? and every time after?! I have never experienced such embarassment!! It has never happened to me before but now it seems to happen every time i have sex with this new boyfriend :(
Anyone else wandering if he sniggers about you with his mates afterwards? Now that would be embarassing!
Well what is the answer? is there a way to stop them? How do you bring it up in converstation!?
Who knows, but one thing's for sure girls - we have fanny farts but at least every time we get turned on in public there isnt a ginormous tent in our trousers to show the whole world!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Oh my goodness thank goodness for this site. I was with my man last night, gettin in the groove, getting into it then....WTF was that??! umm...me!! O man I was totally shocked and mortified, turned off and just wanted to put on my clothes and walk out!! He didn't really have a reaction and kept going like nothing. Later on when I was just walking around it happened AGAIN..then in the shower with my man..AGAIN! Gosh..you can only play it off so many times~! But now that I've read all yalls stories, I feel so much better. I don't want to make a big deal out of it, but I do want to discuss it with my man cuz I don't want it to ruin sex for me ever again! Comfort is the key. THANK ALL YALL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): Shouldn't worry about fanny farting at all! My first ever sexual experience, which was rather poor anyway, was with a very new boyfriend and with me on top in an arm chair(yeh not a good place to loose your virginity) but of course just to improve the situation, when we changed positions, out comes all the air...but not all at once...oh no... that would be too quick and easy... My mortification was lengthened by a whole series of fanny farts in loud rapid succession. Was devastating and i was also rather perplexed. He ignored it but i could see he was smirking, i could have died. Never mind though. If it happens with the guy im with now i just look sheepish and laugh. =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Hey girls,
Im a guy and I was just reading one comment about a girl who's boyfriend thought it was gross.
I have to say, he sounds like an arse. I'd never put my girl down for this, I think I'd find it funny too.
I think the best idea would be for you all to stop worrying. if it happens, explain what it was and if he still thinks its gross, kick him out of bed. then see who has the last laugh. I'd rather a trumping good sex session than a quiet night in alone lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): my girlfriend has fanny farts 2 or more days after sex also she has them when we dont have it. she also has problems during sex it hurts her to much what dose this mean ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Well what can i say? I've never laughed so much at reading some of these replies!
My first one happened many years ago and like many others i could have died i stuck the pillow over my face and refused to come out!
Next time it happened i absolutely roared with laughter which only made me 'fart' more, i reckon if they showed more 'fanny farting' on the telly or in movies it would become abit more acceptable and be a true reflection of what happens to a womans body when she's getting a good seeing to lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): I always tell guys it only happens when I'm sleeping with someone that's too big for me.... They don't seem to mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): I met this new guy, and the sex is wonderful! I hang around alot of guys so they joke about girls quiffing and how gross it is, I used to laugh along too, until it happened to me! Right in the middle of sex, he pulled it out, and BAM it happened. I felt like crying I really did. I mean how embarrasing! He didnt care and laughed it off, but sex was ruined afterwards to me. So 2 days later we decided to have sex again, and yet again it happened. I even tried clenching thinking it would avoid it, but it didnt! It was so embarrasing, even though he assured me he didnt care and explained what it was to me since I didnt know. Next time it happens, Ill just laugh it off
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): I have lots of fanny farts. Once it happened during a very heavy sex session with boyfriend. To hide my embarrassment I told him it happened because he was doing such an amazing job.... We both had a laugh. Now he beams with pride when I let rip. BUT it also happens alot when I'm at work... especially when I get up from my seat after a long time. My female colleagues are quite good-natured about it but still....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Oh my god I absolutely HATE the things!!! The first time it happened I had not even been with my boyfriend that long and I must've let off about six of them in quick succession! He laughed it off whilst I buried my face in the pillow and refused to move for about half an hour! It doesn't happen every time now, usually when my legs are in the air, when I'm really wet or when he keeps pulling out. I think I would've been able to shrug them off if not for the fact that he's never come across them before, despite the fact that he's slept with quite a few people. So I'm the first person to expose him to fanny farts. What a honour!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): the first time this happened to me, i was doing doggy for the first time, and my boyfriend took his penis out, and it let rip, i had to explain it wasnt a fart, but was from my vagina and fell about the place laugh only making it worse.
it happens quite alot to me now, but i find it only happens when he is behind, i find that sticking my fingers up there gives you a chance to release it as and when you want to scilently.
but seriously girls its a natural thing, its just trapped air, like we can help it right? igore it or laught it off, and it always helps if you've got a boyfriend that doesnt care and sees the humour in it. me and my boyfriend have a great laugh about it, but naturally its embarrasing, just have to deal with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): hehe... men fart louder and that too from their butt and u can always explain that the vagina gets stretched during doggystyle or whatever and hence the sound. Im sure men understand that.... :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): omg i just had sex for the first time yesterday and I fanny farted during doggystyle ! It was sooo embarrassing I just wished I could hide in a hole and shoot myself. As I sat up more and more just kept comming out ! My cheeks were burning red and I just ran downstairs and cried but my boyfriend followed me and cuddled me and said it was okay and that he didn't care it would be just between the two of us... hes so nice3
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): If u fanny fart just moan louder, your bf will forget and feel good that he's pleasing you so well .. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): It happens to me too. It's really embarrassing though because it's in my gymnastics class in school and I have to do a routine in front of the whole class. It's silent in the room, and when I do a straddle roll everyone can clearly hear it. What's more, I have to do the roll twice. What am I suppossed to do? I can't announce to the whole class "Oh no, that wasn't a fart everyone. It was from my vagina. Just so you all know." Um, no. So I continue on in embarrassment. Plus my crush spots me on a back tuck right before I do it, so he's nice and close to hear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): Well being male I like my gf fanny farting! It kind of tickles me, lol. The main thing is that it happens usually in the doggy style position and will just happen when you pull all the way out and go back in...... nothing you can really do about it! So just have a laugh about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): if i fanny farted during sex, it would probably be the most embarrassing that ever happened to me. im dreading it. i hate that they are so uncontrollable :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): i starteed fanny farting ages ago and no every tym im in a sertain persistion or somthing i will fanny fart,i havnt had sex just because incase it happens, id do anything for them to stop i really want sex but carnt because of this horrible fanny farting i feel lyk i can never have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): hey, i've been looking every where 4 answers, but i guess i've found the answer here. just laugh it off! well thanks 4 the comments they helped alot and now i know that im not the only one with the "queefs". but they are embarassing speacially when ur boyfriend doesnt understand english that good and you can't explain to him that its normal and it from your vagina not your butt. lol. but he tries to act like he dont care. then later says something stupied like..: "why you fart so much?" lol.hahahhhaha
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): Hahahah.. Yeahhh it is pretty embaressing like!... first time i had sex i done it, i didnt know what to say to him, i just laughed about it coz if i never id of probly cryed, it happened again not so long ago, it was a really big one too!!.. now he understands how it happens and that its bount to happen during sex...
So girls, dont worry about it, its just normal :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): it rarely used to happen to me. but now my bloke's got really into fingering lots me during foreplay, it's happening nearly every time... and sometimes several in succession. it's usually during or just after a position change. i think it's all that in out in out shake it all about stuff. i just give a little giggle and say sorry... which is pretty much what he does when he roles over and bottom burps after sex. i think mine is the lesser of the two evils
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): I haven't had sex yet (yes at only a week til my 19th birthday many will tink this is sad...) anyway, I was doing some exerciss (where you pull your legs up to your head together, spread them as far as you can then lower them...) after about five minutes I let out a fanny fart... i was laughing my head off. I'm glad the first one happened in the safety of my own room and alone... but I feel fairly confident that it wouldn't bother me if I did have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): I'm 28 years old and when I have sex I fanny fart a lot too! If my boyfriend positions himself in the right place and controls his rhythm we can play the tune to Coronation Street in fanny farts.
We have become a bit more adventurous and are trying out Mozart but it needs a lot of work yet.
We don't find it embarrassing anymore, we find composing new songs a challenge.
I do stretching exercises to widen my vagina, I find using a wine bottle helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): Haha. Oh I've just been reading over these comments and they have made me laugh alot and also feel so much more relieved that it's not just me!! I think that about 3 out of every 5 times i have sex i seem to manage to just let the loudest fanny fart rip! It's sooo embarassing. The first time it happened i was just mortified but my bf didn't care. The time after that it happened again and I chose to just laugh it off, which just made it happen about 3 more times in a row. Definately embarassing, but we both laughed lots about it! Afterwards I was talking to one of his relatives and laughed, letting out another one. That was more embaressing then when it was in bed!!!
It's only normal, and I wouldn't be too worried about it. I'm sure the guys don't mind and if they do then tell them they don't haev to have the sex, because basically alot of it is there fault!
P.s I also have found that if i haven't ate much that day they seem to occur more, but that just might be me! So eat up girls!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): haha god its awful, i had never had one before and it was only missionary, he withdrew to change to doggy and i sat up absaloutly mortified, he laughed a bit but i didnt know what it was or how to react, my words..."i think its broken" haha i got dressed quickly and was kind of scared to have sex again, but the next time i was finee, now he practicly begs me to do another, so its all good now i know its natural, and it helps i have such a wonderful understanding boyfriend, dont worry about it girls, if i think i will have one as he withdraws i insert my fingers and slowly pull them out, then just finger normally, that way im not farting and he gets hard again watching me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): haha i have experienced the same thing.. it was soooooo embaressing! i felt like cryin... the look my boyfriend gave me... i really want to know how to stop them to.. but it was our first time and my boyfriend kept withdrawing, so maybe this has something to do with it. but im not to sure. i just laughed it off but i went bright red !! Anyone know any ways to avoid or stop the fanny farts from occuring? you would be saving me from the biggest embaressment i think ive ever experienced!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): I do alot of exercise and after a really embarrassing experience of fanny farting on a mat full of men doing judo, ive started using tampax when training, stops the embarrassment.
But i've started getting worse during sex, doesnt matter what position i use as soon as i move postions i fart, sooo embarrassing, havent got to the laughing stage yet, more the omg and cringing stage, is putting me off my stride during sex though, every time he pulls out i think im going to fart again. eek!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): Hmmm a lot of people are saying this happened to them during doggy style, but mine happened with jst plain ol' missionary (me on top)
The first time it happened was the first time i ever had sex. I laughed (i knew about them and what they were and causes etc) but my boyfriend jst gave me a look and said "Ewww thats gross"
I soon stopped laughing and became relli embarrassed. Afterwards my boyfriend was like "Oooh but im still hard..." but i was too embarrassed to continue. if it wasnt for hes comments i dnt think it wud have mattered :/
but yes. it does happen to everyone, and i think its funny.
clearly i need a new boyfriend...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Well, everytime I get a vaginial air release. I tuck my stomach in and rub my vagina at the same time... It works and prevents air releasin from that area. Give it a shot
The fanny doctor
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): im soo glad that im not the only one! untill a few weeks ago id never experienced a ''fanny fart'' and it was quite embarressing and it did ruin the moment but my boyfriend just laughed which made me laugh and he dont care which is a relief! i also get it worse when we do it doggy but it wont stop me! i read on the net a ''fanny fart'' is your vagina saying thank you for a amazing shag! which puts my mind at rest. i think it can be due to lack of exercise but isnt sex a good source of exercise?? so lets take advantage and ''exercise'' more often!! and remember that ''fanny farting'' is natural & a compliment to your boyfriend...so just laugh it off along with him! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): HANG ON A MINUTE! If it happens during or after sex it's the result of something you BOTH did. Although it can make you cringe if you feel it spoils the moment let's face it, if he wasn't putting his dick inside you, you wouldn't be doing the farts. The question is, what's his excuse?!!!!
I have often wondered though, why it happens at times when you're not sexually active. Is it really down to lack of muscle tone? I've been ill for a while and so have been doing less exercise. You reckon that's the culprit?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): I have problems with fanny farting during yoga classes. When we do exercises with our legs up in the air, no matter how much I try to tighten my vagina, air nearly always gets sucked in and then comes out, sometimes very noisily in a later exercise standing up. It's really embarrassing as everyone can hear it. I'm even thinking of giving up yoga because of it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): my girlfriend can fanny fart when ever she wants its f***** amazing shes like a wind machine . we always laugh about it all the time . up the fanny farters
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): yeh its happend to me loads but my boyfriend thinks its the funnyest thing ever.. iv been wih him nearly two years and he doesnt care. I do get embarresd but he alwasy tells me no to and that it happens to everyone. I do think it can ruin a moment abit but laugh it off it works! xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): omg this happened to me doing doggy with my boyfriend!its actually never happened before and i've had sex in that position absolutely loads of times!!! i got REALLY embarassed and i just couldnt continue to have sex after it! i just sat ther not wanting to move in case more happened! oh god it was terrible!after reading all these other people thought i wish i had just laughed it off..or at least tryed to but its hard when your completely mortified!!!!oh well sure..happens to us all and i think other ppl were right in saying that it happens wen he withdraws too much!!thats exactly what my bf was doing before the ehh..issue..!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): With me the air can stay inside for ages then come out at a later time - like last night. Woke my self up in the middle of the night, my boyf MUST of thought it was the other kind of wind problem but I just pretnded I was asleep! They feel very different. Very embarassing, been thinking about it all day. Feel like explaining myself but wouldnt know where to start!! I say blame the man because he is the one who pushes it up there anyway!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): haha im am male and i like fanny farts! i rekon they are awesum, all the boys who think its disgusting are stupid, they dnt realise tru beauty of the female genitals! hehe if any girl did it wen with me i either dnt notice, laugh or say sumthing kinky like "i want the next one on my face sxc" and keep on goin. it depends on the girls reaction, i love them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): dang, i think those fanny farts kinda tickle there a little bit. i know it makes me feel better. if my man thinks i should be embarresed then he can go on somewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): Aw i was sooo embarassed after i fanny farted for the first time! We both did laugh it off but i have lost my self confidence and i havent even had sex since! Why do we have them.. ahh they r awful! But i agree that the best way is to try and laugh them off, i will sure be needing all the advice in the future! Haha! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): I suppose a fanny fart is like a burp. Firsty it had a munch and then either during or after it burped (ok... "FARTED!") with utmost satisfaction. If it `burps` before then that's in anticipation of what's to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): hello ladies!
it really is normal and, i'll be the first to admit, i got the fright of my life when it first happened to me - i too was face to face with the culprit - but you know what, how many guys can HONESTLY say they haven't farted during sex? shit, i do every damn time! everyone farts - if you didn't you'd be the queen of england. she doesn't fart. no way jose! i agree with the ladies, it's funny, yes it's embarrassing but for the most part, it can be a good giggle and lightens any mood tremendously! some guys (including me) find it quite a turn-on too! GO THE QUEEFS!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): yeah this happened to me last night when with a guy! but the thing is im really flexible so if i lifted my leg up high or something (not actually having sex) suddenly id let off a huge one! It was really embarassing for me but we just laughed nd i tried to ignore it! I dont want to stop moving into these positions but might have to if it causes a fanny fart every 5 minutes!
gaaad guys dont know how lucky they are not to have dick farts..
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): lol i agree that fanny farts can be really embarrassing but laughing it off is the best way to deal with it. From reading the replies on here a lot of ppl are saying they are going to avoid doggy style which is a shame as i love that position. If ur with someone who ur close to then something that unimportant shudnt ruin ur sex life or make u nervous in bed.
Also noticed that the guys response plays a big part - he shud laugh about it otherwise it causes nervous un-natural tension.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): I did a fanny fart a couple of weeks ago, and i didnt really know what it was! I dont think the lad i was having sex with had ever experienced a fanny fart before because he looked a bit puzzled by it but we just laughed it off more than anything! It was really embarrassing and does make me think 'What if i do it again' when having sex because it is embarrassin but...boys fart in front of girls and im not fussed by that!! Its natural at the end of the day!! I didnt find when doing it doggy that it happened, it was when i had my legs in the air...but never mind life goes on...sex is great...who cares?xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): well in my case they normally caused by having sexual intercourse with your legs up in the air .It normally traps air in the virgina, as he thrusts you again the wind is pressured out and makes a loud noise known as 'fanny farts' .so in future i wouldnt have you legs up in the air as this can make it worse, and easy way to get air trapped in your virgina, or maybe in any case where you feel asif your to wide open and easy for you to get trapped air!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2006): Seriously guys I really wouldn't worry. This happens to EVERYONE. And it's funny not embarrassing!! I would be suprised if you came across a man who hadn' experienced this with another partner. My ex-partners and I always just giggle and carry on. If the guy does make a big deal about it then he's probably just very inexperienced.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): It happened to me aswell, had no idea there was such a thing...i ignored it at first then thought there was sumthing rong with me....my boyfriend dint no wot it was either i had to ask my sis...
Glad i read this page dint no it hapens to alot of pepl
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): Its very easy to say just laugh it off but its certainly easier said than done. it has only happened to me when doing it doggy so i just dont do it that way anymore.Sex is meant to be enjoyable and romantic not embarasing.guess its down to the individual, think its easier to deal with if you've been with them a long while and not a one off.there are so many adaptations of doggy style you can do without the noise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): I wish i knew it happened to everyone. I wonder why no one told me. it happens to me every time after i have sex doggy style. i love doggy style but i get embarressed by vagina farts so i dont like to do it. last time i was doing it i was like im gonna close my legs after real slow. that did not work one bit. i guess i just wont do it doggy (if i cant find a way yo stop it). its too bad but oh well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): omg! just then i was with my boyfriend we was on my bed and i let off a huge LOUD fanny fart! it was soooo emabressing and we just looked at each other and didnt do anything. i know we should have laughed but its hard when your just so totally embaressed! i seriously hope he dosent bring it up in the future!! buit if it does happen again, i think im just gonna smile and see what he does, if he smiles back il laugh lol!! i find it hard to relax during sex now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): This happened with me for the first time yesterday with my new (2nd partner) partner. The first time it happened it was sooo loud and embarassing. It was just after he had withdrawn and during the sex he has withdrawn fully a few times. He didnt mention it but I just wanted the bed to swallow me up. It then happened again a few more time (quiter this time) but im sure he still heard them. It also happens when he if 'playing with me'. He hasnt mentioned anything and as he is quite a bit older than me is probably used to them but i just dont want it to happen eveytime we get together, ill end up putting me off sex. I am stil sooo embarassed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006): Vaginal 'Farts' don't necessarily have anything to do with sex. I have started having them & I've had no sex for 3 months! I have also not been exercising for longer than that!! You must do pelvic floor exercises. This wind can indicate a vaginal prolapse, a weakening of the muscles or other underlying symptom. Please make sure you do pelvic floor exercises at least once a day pulling up muscles about 5 times
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): Look girls, as a nice guy, I want you to enjoy our time together, if your fanny does a silly fart during or afterwards, then, great, it makes me feel you really enjoyed it, which i hope you did. End of discussion, no need for any embarassment !
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Ah, love puffs.
They rock!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): I had that happen to me today, I have been with my boyfriend a few months...when it happened I just laughed it off but wondered why I suddenly farted!!
I feel much better having read these answers, as someone said though doggy style does feel great, just relax and enjoy sex!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): I find " Fannyn farting" really embarrasing and its only recently its started to happen to me. I used to be confident having sex with my boyfriend and now when it happens i feel like cying as it happens at random times like when me and my partner were doing a 69 ( me being on top) it happend right in his face. i jumped up like a shot. He doesnt care that i do it but i cant seem to laugh it off like he can.
what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): The worst thing about fanny farts is that there is no warning that their coming! At least with 'proper' farts you feel them building and can hold them in, with fanny farts they just happen. Loudly.
Unfortunately for me when it first happened, my husband said 'ewwwwwwww', got up and got dressed. We got divorced soon after! lol
We need maturity about these things please guys!! You aint perfect either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): me and my girlfriend were doing doggy and she let off a fanny fart she got so embaroused and we both laughed how do i tell her its not a problem for me without making her think its a big deal
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): ... i just try to make them think its their fault
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): Honestly do not worry! This happened to me yesterday and yes it was the first time i'd done it doggy style. I'd definitely back up that the two are linked. My boyfriend and me are really close and we just laughed about it and carried on. He was even laughing about it on the car in the way home it didn't change how he felt about me or sex, just gave him something extra to pull my leg about. I think he was quite relieved that girls aren't perfect either! x
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reader, vivica +, writes (10 June 2006):
teehee. i acctually had this little accident today. iv been with my boyfriend for two years now, tday was our anniversary, so we had a candle lit dinner and then candle lit sex..it was all so romantic when we had both came, he lay down and we cuddled...he said "i love you so much huni" and...oh...wait for it..i let off a huge fanny fart. i was mortified. but we both rolled around in fits of laughter, and as i was laughing it kept happening. but when your with someone for a long time and you love eachother, you can get over things like that. it's not a big deal, they don't mind...but yea it is doggy style that does it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): Hi
Don't stress about it, Fanny farts are cool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): Keep your vagina tight to keep the air from being pumped into it! This is difficult if you are being pounded doggy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): do kegel excersises. they'll tighten your vaginal muscles and wont allow any air in when you have intercourse. you could look up this excerise on the internet. hope this helps it most certainly helped me! no more fanny farts!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): stop doing it doggy style..lol!i would'nt worry about it it happens to everyone..best thing to do is just laugh it off..i do!!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): i was completely mortifired the first time it happend to me. i had never heard of them before and it was totally unexpected and to make things worse my boyfriend roared laughing. it happens so much now we just ignore it but one tip i find fantastic is sticking your fingers into your vagina straight after he pulls out. this stops the air and traps it inside you this way you can let it out slowly but silently in your own time and your boyfriend wont have a clue, just try it i swear it works, voila!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): use alota lubricant ive heard
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2006): Fanny farts are just part of sex, however my most embarrasing moment was during a hot session I let out a fanny fart. I just ignored it and carried on only to discover that it was a proper fart and I had followed through. I was mortified
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006): fanny farts are so embarrassing! me and my long term bf were getting all passionate and then suddenly about 3 of them rumbled out of me i felt like dying on the spot! the passion dissapeard and we tore apart followed by a long awkward silence. I know i should just laugh it off but its so hard when its so embarrassing and totally turns your bf off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2005): I find it so embarrassing im at the stage of not having sex again this has only just started to happen with me im 43 it totally puts me off sex and the thought of doing it scares me ive tried lubrication and i read somewhere perhaps excercise of the muscles might help but i havent cured it yet but i wont stop trying its that or give up on sex sorry but i dont find it funny i feel like dying when it happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2005): I was having sex with my first and ex-boyfriend when it happened to me. I laughed because it was funny. Then I started to feel REALLY embarrassed after I had realized how gross it really sounded. I wondered if I was just a really weird girl but apparently it is very common. He never mentioned it so I did. He said it did not bother him and most guys will say the same thing. Like someone said up there... if your with someone you trust/love...what's the big deal. You're both having fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2005): It's happened to me loads, and yes, it is the doggy style that does it! Or if they're going fast..
Reading all these answers make me feel good that i'm not alone in this though, thanks! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2005): DONT DO IT DOGGYSTYLE!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2005): I had that!but only with doggystyle... its sooo embarrassing, its just one of those things uv just gotta get past, it really is a passion killer though, especially if they think uv just let one go...iv never managed to carry on after for fear of it happening again! if anybody knows any tips, pass them on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2005): i never experienced 'fanny farts'until i first tried doggy style...the most amazing posistion id say but it totally put me off. i wish i hadnt let it bother me because like everything else embarrassing you should just laugh it off. as long as you trust the guy you are with then it shouldn't be a problem however some guys can be immature...just tel them where to go! it cant be helped its just the trapped air being forced out, i blame the guy for withdrawing too much and sometimes just because they go to fast and hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2005): Fanny farts are caused from air being sucked in through the vagina, and then forced back out, causing a very funny anal fart like sound. you cant prevent these from happening, however they can occur during doggy style, or other active sex positions. dont worry, they are natural, and best thing to do is just laugh at them, and possible rate them out of ten to hide the embarrassment...... i can do them on demand so i just let 'em rip!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (7 September 2005):
 I know this can be very embaressing but most of the time you simply can't prevent it! Like the others say, just laugh at it, don't let it get you down. The bigger deal you make of it, the worse you'll feel and it'll become a real problem.
I find that this happens more if the man fully removes and inserts his penis a lot during sex, more air gets trapped and this happens! The position you're in can affect it too, if you're on your hands and knees, it often happens more. If you really don't want it to happen, tell him not to pull out so often but don't let this take over your sex life. Sex is supposed to be fun so just enjoy! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2005): Ah the joys of fanny farts!!! There is nothing you can do it about,it just the way we are made.A lot of it depends on what position you are in..but honestly the best way to deal with it is to laugh at it.Sex is never like they show it on the movies,where everything hapens perfectly.Do you see the film stars fanny farting?!! But it happens to all of us females.Dont let it embaress you,its just one of those things..
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (6 September 2005):
 Not a lot really but to not worry about it! It is natural and perfectly normal, air does and can get trapped inside the vagina particularly when having sex.
Relax, laugh about it and don't allow it to interfere with your sex life.
After all, some men create an awful lot of wind so why shouldn't women join them occasionally!
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