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writes:Ok so I asked this question a couple of days ago but I didnt get any responses so I figured I would ask again so here it goes...I know this might sound like I am shy but I am really not that shy. I have a calm personality but I am not afraid to go up and talk to people. My problem is that there's this girl I've seen in the halls at school and I think she's cute and I'm not afraid to go up to her but I really don't know what to say. I dont have her in any classes so it's not like I can chat her up in class. I only see her for about 30 seconds in the hall when I pass by her when she is going to her class. I want to get to know her better but like I said I don't really know what to say to engage her in a conversation. I don't want to go up to her and have her think I'm a big dufus. Do you guys have any ideas?
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reader, Arijana.  +, writes (8 November 2010):
Well,you could start by just saying hi to her when you see her and smile. Maybe once in a while,you could wink at her.. I know it sounds silly but it really works. Good luck! :D
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (8 November 2010):
 Add her on Facebook? Or find out if she does any after school activities and then you can join?
Walking up to her when you have no shared classes and only pass in the hall is a bit weird - she wont appreciate being randomly hit on by some guy in the hall!
So I would explore other avenues that exist out of school - add her on Facebook, join any clubs/activities she does out of school etc.
Aside from that I cant really think of anything else I'm afraid!
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (8 November 2010):
 well its kinda hard to help you here. maybe ask one of your friends who she is, if they know her they can introduce you. there's also the option of helping her carry her school stuff, just go up to her and say 'hi, do ou want help with your books? (or whatever she's carrying)' she's either going to say yes or no.or strike up a conversation. but if she's on her way to lesson i'd suggest you don't she might not appreciate you stopping her from getting there.
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