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writes:I am leaving my job and there is a mutural attraction between me and the boss. I want to give him something to remember me with. I was thinking of a plant with a card with some really kind words in as he has helped me a lot.I have been treated like crap in my job and hence the resignation.(Not by him but others). He has tried to help me a lot and has given me s smashing reference. Not long a go he ran up to me and told me that I REALLY hurt him by not appreciating what he had done for me. I felt touched! I too was hurting though.The attraction has been going on for months and we both are very relaxed in each othere company.I am off to work as Cabin Crew for a major airline. I was a manager in education. I am wondering how he will now see me and whether the attraction will grow into something else. But how do we maintain links? I do not want to throw my number at him.Any advice welcome.Do you think this apppropriate? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 A plant, a nice card and include your personal e-mail address and/or phone number. Then see if he pursues. If he doesn't, don't bug him. The attraction may not have been as tangible as you thought. If he's interested, he'll contact you, especially if you've provided these things in the card.
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reader, romany +, writes (22 July 2010):
 hmmmmm, this is very similar to several questions thats been asked on DC, where the OP is a common law wife, and the said boss is a married man.
If its you, you know your wrong, neither of you are available, so let it go, no one here is gonna help you how to become a successful female philanderer, or give you answers to justify your chasing of this married man. You need professional help...counselling, your obsessed.
If its not you, then apologies, and if the boss likes you that much and your both single and available, he'll come to you. He knows where he sent the reference, so he'll find you.
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reader, a_seidner06  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 tell this guy how you feel. The plant is a little boring honestly. Maybe you can give him just a card like a hallmark and jot down your feelings while leaving your email or something if he does not already have it.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 I think the plant and the card would work fine. You could say in the card "keep in touch"
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