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anonymous
writes:my friends (3 of them), suddenly turns their back on me. and when something happened to me, they laughed at me without helping. they told everyone how i talk behind their back and judge people on their looks. but i didn't, the other friend told me and i was just being nice and listen then show my point of view but doesn't effect anyone. now that girl and my 3 friends kind of stick together and go against me.What should i do with them? how can i clear this mess? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Act like u dont care about what they say because the are probably jealous of u. Show them that whatever they say or do will not remove the smile on ur face. They obviously dont care enough about you and arent true friends and u dont need such people in ur life. take this chance to make new friends that will appreciate u and be there for u whenever u ned them. i know that friends are very important for a girl ur age , bu u gotta find the right ones and forget about the old one. i used to have stupid friends that stabbed me in the back and talked behind my back, it took me a while to get over them but now i hav amazing friends and i just love my girlzz :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): At your age it's normal for your friends to do this. It is common under girls they do it a lot. Just don't let them see that it is bothering you because that is what they want. Stand up for yourself, but most of the time the best thing to do is to just walk away and don't say a thing to them about it and keep your head up. If you just ignore it then it will start bothering them and they will back off. Remember most of the time when someone is mean to you like that they are jealous. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): At your age it's normal for your friends to do this. It is common under girls they do it a lot. Just don't let them see that it is bothering you because that is what they want. Stand up for yourself, but most of the time the best thing to do is to just walk away and don't say a thing to them about it and keep your head up. If you just ignore it then it will start bothering them and they will back off. Remember most of the time when someone is mean to you like that they are jealous. :-)
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