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What can I do with a perfectionist child?

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Question - (20 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi there you are all so amazing on helping others and this has nothing to do with the subjects you seem to be discussing but i am a child care practitoner and im good at what i do according to others,but there is one little boy in my class aged 4 years old who finds it hard to share wich is expected at this age but no matter how hard i try to cooparate and communicate with him he just rolls around on the floor having a tantrum! now usually when i tell a child to share they aknowlidge me and begin to share but he cant understand,he also wants everything to be perfect and will cry if he cant complete something to perfection..

what do i do..??

eny tips??

arghhh.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

He could have the early signs of autism.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

I think your best course of action is to talk to your colleagues and see what they suggest. Try not to go it alone - you are no doubt in a team and teams are there to help each other.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2009):

I think you need to have a word with his parents. If he's an only child, or if he has a new sibling, then he might be jealous and this might be about attention. Or perhaps he's in competition with an older sibling (there are so many things it could be). So my advice would be to speak to his parents and see what you can find out about him.

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