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writes:Hi thereMy girlfriend and i have been togethere for 5months now, and we are having sex, but i can't seem to make her come, and i come so kwickly sometimes, sometimes when she comes, but she takes verrrrrrrrry long, is there anything i can do to make her cum quiker. Guys remember i sent this question last week, But i took every1's advice, my gf and i did it yesterday 3times and 1 time today, but i came and she still never cum. please help me on this, coz i don't know what else to do.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): The 2 women who I had spent the most time with after my divorce had trouble having an orgasm with intercourse. The one said that she never had, but I spent a lot of time giving her oral sex and she had great orgasms that way and enjoyed the sex that we had.
The other one is the one who is now my wife and she has the best orgasms with oral sex also and has 1 or 2 everytime we have sex and I give her oral, which is about 90 percent of the time that we have sex. She can also have an orgasm with intercourse if I also lick her ear during sex. Her ear is very sensitive. It works best if I give her oral sex first. Then she is already greatly turned on for the intercourse. She almost always has 1 or 2 orgasms with intercourse. The best position for licking her ear is missionary. We use other positions also, but normally only after she has had 1 orgasm on her back.
I was not a very good lover with my first wife and I don't remember what I did then, so the above is what I remember best. Get her turned on with a lot of foreplay or oral and experiment to find a sensitive area that will really excite her. The ear or neck seem to be good. Sometimes my wife will also orgasm with passionate snogging during intercourse.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 What's the hurry? Maybe it's not about her coming quicker but you coming slower? Have you thought of that? If she never comes ever, she may have a medical problem, but if it just takes a while to get her engine firing on all cylinders, it's probably worth the wait. I'll repeat my opening question - What's the hurry?
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