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writes:I have moved into the situation now where the guy like- does like me too! Unfortunately he is in a difficult relationship and thinks it might not last. He doesn't want to string me along and therefore doesn't want to pursue anything. Fair enough and the truth. BUT I can't move on as I think he is gorgeous abd I am getting signs he really is interested! Around when I am (obviously!). Should we try and meet and chat about the situation?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 The only thing you would have to chat about is when he would be breaking off his difficult relationship. He THINKS it's not going to last. In reality, if he doesn't think it was going to last then he would have already dumped her for you. Makes sense.
There's really nothing to chat about, you're waiting on him to dump his girlfriend. Which is something he may or may not do. If I were you I would back off of this guy and wait for him to actually take some action. Now, if he doesn't dump her, then he's not that interested in dating you.
Think about it before you become this guy's side item to his main dish.
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