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writes:Ok i need help. My boyfriend likes getting blowjobs but i dont think im doing it right.i dont have guy parts so i dont know what feels good. How do i give a blowjob that makes my boyfriend feel good?
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reader, masha76  +, writes (2 November 2011):
When it comes to giving better oral sex there are so many variables involved. But, the first and most important thing to remember is to relax and let yourself enjoy giving your man oral sex.
Once you get rid of any inhibitions and let yourself enjoy giving you partner pleasure your skills and your man's enjoyment with increase enormously.
So get yourself in the mood, release your inner porn star. This isn't a "job" it's a way to express your love and naughty sexuality to your partner. Get into and you'll find that you'll enjoy it more and so will he.
Other than getting into the right spirit of the act, it's also important to remember that most guys have sensitive penises, so rubbing anything abrasive across it is going to hurt! It's very important to keep your teeth from scraping your lover's penis while you give him head. One way to do this is by folding your lips around your teeth. Try it. Practice makes perfect. This is especially handy if your man has an unusually girthy penis, lucky girl.
When I say practice, I really mean practice. Go to the super market and pick up some penis shaped fruits and vegetables. Carrots, cucumbers, and bananas all come to mind. This way you can get your BJ game in order before the big show.
"Blow job" is actually a poor name for the act because is leads women (or gay men for that matter) astray. The object is really to do the exact opposite of blowing...you need to suck. If you need detailed tips, check out http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com/
This gentle suction mimics the gentle sucking of a woman's vagina during peak ovulation period. Remember to be gentle, there's nothing a guy hates more than a blow job that's too rough.
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reader, Odds +, writes (9 May 2011):
 Use your lips to provide friction. Use your tongue, and don't use your teeth. Vary your speed according to what he responds to, and to what you're able to perform comfortably, but once you find a rythym he likes, stick with it for a while. Swallow if you can, it's way better but not mandatory.
All the technique in the world is no match for enthusiasm, though. If he thinks you're having the time of your life blowing him, he'll be happy. Enjoy yourself down there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): the head of a guy's penis is like a woman's clitoris. it feels best when you have stimulation there, so try focusing on the head of his penis. also pressure from your hands helps. try lightly squeezing his penis as you "bob" your head up and down his penis. also try playing or slightly squeezing his testicles. guys's love to have their testicles touched but women rarely do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): You said he likes getting them, doesn't that tell you that they feel good to him, relax and stop tying yourself up in knots.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): Maybe you should watch porn and find out? It's hard to explain...but you pretty much perform the oral sex, go right at it...make sure you give him a sensation on both the base and the head of the penis with your mouth. Also, don't be afraid to swallow his cum, unless you don't want to. Do all that, and he should be satisfied...and ready for sex.
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reader, katusha91 +, writes (9 May 2011):
 There are three components for any blow job; mouth, hands and enthusiasm. The actual parts you need to focus on at the head, shaft and balls. There are some great how-to videos on youtube, I suggest you look at some of them.
But the best thing that you can possibly do is communicate!
Ask him "Does that feel good?" "Tell me what you would like" Men are easy to please.
P.S. Hold the teeth
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