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writes: I have been having sex but for only a few months now. My boyfriend is pretty inexperienced as well only being with two other girls. Anyways he really likes doggy style, but I can't cum like that... is that normal or are we doing something wrong.He feels so bad about it like he's not a man or something just because of that. But I think it's me not him.It seems that I can't cum at all unless he's rubbing against my clit.. is there something wrong with me then? What can I do to make sex more enjoyable for both of us? Reply to this Question
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 If you have read many answers on here about similar questions, you will have heard that what you are experiencing is quite normal.
It's not your fault, or his. Mother Nature is the culprit, placing the thing that stimulates you and gets you off, your clit, out of the way of most of the action!
ALL orgasms are clitoral, and most women don't cum readily from intercourse unless they have clitoral stimulation by his or your fingers during intercourse.
Or get some toys; loads available that he can put on his cock to stimulate your clit as he pumps, many with a battery-driven vibrator. That helps both of you.
And please don't either of you think that by using such aids you are in anyway inadequate or getting it wrong: it's just the way we are all made.
Harry.
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