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female
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30-35,
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writes:Because I spend time with one of my best friends ( who happens to be a guy and he's got a gf) my Mum spies on me when I'm with him to check that nothing happens. She had a go at me because I hugged him ( in a friendly way) I just enjoy spending time with my best friend. Everyone looks down on me because of it.Why can't anyone trust me? I wouldn't even try to make him two time on her 'cause I know he loves her. And I'm fed up of my friends and my Mum spying on me and making sure we don't do anything!! :(Any Ideas?Cheers x
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reader, gf123  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Hi there,
Well you could start by talking to your mum about how you feel and explaining the situation. If your mum understands and trusts you then she's less likely to spy.
An alternative is to spend time with you friend away from your mum and friends. There are plenty of things you can do together such as going to the cinema, bowling, ice-skating...whatever you enjoy doing really. If you tell your mum where you are going and talk to her about what you got up to, she will start to realise that you are only interested in this boys' friendship.
If your friends are a problem, why not organise outings that include them? Your friend's girlfriend could come along too and you could prove once and for all that you are happy with the arrangement you have and don't want anything more from this boy.
Best of luck
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