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writes:hi guys. i have a really have an amazing girlfriend, as far as i know everything is perfect with us except one thing. we are in a long, long distance relationship and i aint met her parents yet. 3 months into the relationship they pushed her to break it off and they gave her such an emotional beating, she decided we would take it slow and do it behind their backs but eversince that time, i feel slightly insecure. she is going to prom with some dude and i dont know if i should stop her. her parents said we can do whatever when she finishes school which is like 2years from now. something inside me tells me she might give in to peer pressure and hook up with someone if im unromantic. what can i do to keep her happy and something that shows how much i love her given we stay on different ends of the earth? some unique ideas and also what i can say, imply or do just to make her feel a tad jealous? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): well one things for certain. DONT make her jealousitll make her think you dont want to be with her and she will break up with you and her parents wont think much of you if you try make her feel jealous because theyll think ur messing her about.just talk to her and tell her how you feel about it.shes going to the prom with a boy/ my boyfriend doesnt go to the same school as me but im going to prob with 3 boys that have eiher been my ex, or has liked me or i liked them.Hes worried but Ive reassured him and yes it doesnt mean hes totally okay with it but he trusts me with it just as you should trust your girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): Making her jealous is not the answer. It could just lead to much worse problems down the road. She could end up being resentful towards you, when all she wanted to do was go to her prom. Prom is like a right of passage in high school. Its a big deal! Don't ruin it for her.If you want to be romantic... why don't you take her? I don't know how LONG of a distance you are, but if it is possible to share that special evening with her, I would do so. It would probably mean the world to her.On another note, something tells me she is not being completely forthright with you. I am assuming you two have never met and this is internet based. Dating behind her parents backs? What parents really care if their child is dating someone that they will hardly see- where is the trouble in that? Except making she would be lacking on a real social life and dating scene. I just doubt there is any truth to this. Sounds like she wants to keep you as an online boyfriend and a secret from her friends and real life.Just a thought...
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