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writes:i got to be honest so I am kinds worried about my relationship. I have been so mean to my boyfriend for awhile know. I'm not too sure why buy I get so mad at him and sometimes its not his fault.I love him with everything I can! We are both under a lot of stress we are in the process or buying our first home we have three beautiful babies and planning our wedding. Why do I take it all out on him all he does is work 6 days a week and the rest of his time he is focused on me and our children! I am always thinking he is cheating and I have caught him in lies about being with another female while we were together. Am I blowing things out of proportion or what? He tells me he loves me and wants me but recently we have been having problems in bed. What can I do to keep him? I really do love this man but I'm scared!!! Please help me out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkk got to say I talked things out with him we are getting along great! Its crazy how you can talk to the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with and it be that releaving. We are now moving along with planning our wedding and I realized he does love me it was just getting rough and it was caught before it got out of hand! Thanks for you taking time to help.
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reader, anitaw4 +, writes (21 April 2009):
Hmm well thats a tuffy. No man likes a nagging woman. They dont like being questioned even if they should be. If you want to turn things around, my best advice would be to remember the woman he fell for in the beginning and do your best to be that. You have to make him want to be with you again. Pushing and proding men never works. It only appears to work maybe on the outside, they still feel what they feel on the inside. Back way off, be nice, be a friend, hopefully its not to late and he will come back. Why do you think men seak out other women. Its because they appear to understand what the little woman at home doesnt. No nagging, just fun and understanding, be that.
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