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anonymous
writes:I really like this boy who lives across the road from me. However, he has a girlfriend. On one occasion he told me that he liked me, but, as I was worked up about a personal family matter, I think i said probably said no, although i can't really remember because i was really worked up and was crying. Howver, since then he has been ignoring me, but on a number of occasions he has given me signs which i think means that he likes me. however, I really like him too now, but he still has a girlfriend. Now i want to tell him that i like him too, but he has lived opposite me for 9 years and is the son of my mums best friend. Therfore, i cannot just go up to him straight and tell him. What can i do to hint to him that i like him without saying it and making it too blatant and obvious, baring in mind that i don't see him much and we don't talk very often (he's not really my friend).
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Can I ask what about his girlfriend? It really frustrates me how many people in this world are so selfish and don't care who they hurt, his girlfriend would be an innocent victim in this.
Well if you plan on making a move whilst he's with his girlfriend I hope he says no, that's all you deserve.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 He might think you are a little unstable if he told you he likes you and you turned it around to you and started crying. What do you want from him? Tell him, so he will know too. If you approach him, remember this, you put yourself in a weak position. If it's just a romp you want, I'm sure he would oblige. There are other ways to approach, but you have to be real and tell me what do you want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): U no what? I genuinely think that you should become friends with him before anyting else. It is clear to see that he has given you the chance before to try and be together but you, being in a family situation turned him down... Although you probably should've told him that was the problem. I think the best thing to do now, will be to build a steady base first and then go from there, becas right now u have nothing to build upon as u dnt talk much really. Befriend him and build up a healthy friendship which is open so it can progress.
Wish you all the best! Hope it all works out. H.K.S
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