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writes:I am in love with a wonderful man who lives in Morocco, I live in New Zealand. We are both struggling to find the money so he can come and be with me. I want some kind person out there in this world to help me to fund him to come to New Zealand so we can be together. I have never met a caring, honest, loving and wondeful man in my 46 years of my life. This love we have is cupid and we so much want to be together. What do I do.
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reader, tigerlady +, writes (1 March 2007):
tigerlady is verified as being by the original poster of the question I want to thank Irish49 for her wonderful messages that she answered and back me up on. Thank you irish49. You have been an inspiration to me and I hope that we can help each other in some other ways or become online friends in the near future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): dont do it. it never works. i ve been down that road, and its not worth it. it seems all rosie now. but once he is here, thats the end of that. i tried everything to try and get mine here and thank god it didnt happen.i learnt the hard way. if he wants to get here that bad let him fund it. trust me please. i ended up on anti depression tablets in the end x
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 if he really wants to be with you he`d save up, now the only way you can really see whether or not hes using u as a 'free meal ticket' is to see if he can find his own way over to you, plus accomodation as it would be common sense not to let a guy sleep with you when you are from different countries and have just sin each other for the first time. If he can get his own way to you then you mean something to him, but your not helping yourself by wanting to find funds for this. Nobodys going to fund for this, there are much more important things to fund for than getting him over to see you when everyday women are being used just so they can get out of there country. its 50/50 really, he cud be the nicest kindest being on this planet who`ll kiss you everyday and say such nice things to you, but then again he could be one of those men that butters women up to flee there country....... and how many times have we heard reports where that has happened.... and for a start you best ask the advice of the people that are going to help you with the funding, i doubt theyll be too happy spending there money on flying some guy out who might not give 2 flys about you. Think this through and please be careful x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): Hold it, guys. What makes you think he is 'using her as afreemeal ticket'? I am not getting that from her posting. All we have here, is a lady who has a man in another country and she's looking for ways to help him. If she did have the funds herself, and he was using her for her money, she wouldn't have posted this question. There are many long distance relationships that do work out. But, if one is going to get involved in them..make darn sure you have the funds in place, to fly out to each other. However, it's unfair to judge and state that this man is using her as a free meal ticket. Unless, this poster wants to give us more information...for now, we have not enough info to assume she is being used. We simply don't know that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): I Have to agree with anon, you are such an easy meal ticket. When did you meet him? While on holiday, when everyone is on their best behaviour? sorry to put the dampners on it but he is using you to get out of the country and get to yours. People can be so nice, kind and wonderful when they want something. I bet he could charm the pants off anyone. Please think very carefully before you go ahead with this.
While you two are in separate countries now it all SOUNDS great. Go for the real thing and i can guarantee that it wouldn't last five minutes. He will either disappear once he gets there or he will lead you a life of hell.
Be careful and think before you do anything.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): Well, dear...I don't think anyone is going to just "pop out of the woodwork" and give you the cash you need to get this man from Morrocco to fly to NZ, to be with you. Perhaps the two of you will have to pool your money and resources like the rest of us would and 'save' your monies to get him over to be with you. If he's working, tell him to put away a hundred each month. It will take time, and sacrifices but it can be done. You just have to be patient. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): sorry to have to say this,but you are what they call a meal ticket.this guy doesnt love you and he is playing you,god knows how many other women have fallen for his charms.i myself nearly fell for a similar guy in jamaica,until i met my fiance and he basically saved me from these so called players as even the females are just as bad as my fiance unfortunately didnt escape her charm and bullshit and is now paying the price,please consider what you have read with caution for your own sake
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