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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and some times I get the feeling that he is losing interest in me. How can I get the spark back into our relationship and make him notice me the way he used to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): well..just simplay tell him you love him and you could maybe take him to his favorite place around. Just do more stuff together and he might be losing interest just don't act Depressed. And always act to him as if you just won 4 million dollars. The spark will come back defintly if you tell him he is simplay the best and giv ehim a big hug or some inner action. The spark should come back soon if you follow these tips.
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reader, missdee +, writes (21 September 2005):
Any relationship after awhile goes stale. Its up to us to keep it alive and exciting. Set back at least a day a week for you and your boyfriend to spend time together, just the two of you. Suprise him with a candlelight dinner or rent some movies, pop some popcorn and snuggle on the couch. *Always keep it spicy in the bed*
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2005): Dress more provocatively. Men are very visual. Let him know that you don't take him for granted by keeping up with appearances. Most men and boys like being with a girl or woman who still turns head of other men, and gets her share of wolf whistles. ( Eat your hearts out, guy, she goes home with me!) Send him notes at work, or cards- you can buy any kind of greeting card that has a suggetive picture on it, white out the writing on the inside, and write your own message. Send him a flower at work, with a very suggestive note telling him what he can expect from you that evening. He will be embarrassed to be getting a flower, and will take a lot of grief from other employees, but they are just envious of him, and they know it. ( They don't have a girlfriend or wife who sends them flowers on Wednesday, because it is Wednesday, and not a birthday, or anniversary, with a salacious note, to boot!) Call him just to tell him how much you love him, and what you will do to him if he picks you up for lunch, or early after work, or class.Etc. When you are walking in public, put your arm around him, reach back and squeeze his buns, and when he expresses surprise or shock, just smile at him, and say, " Are you complaining or bragging?" How can he stay mad at you when you ask him that question? Rub a breast across his arm, and smile when he looks to see if you are doing it on purpose. Sneak a grab of his family jewels when no one is looking. He should not feel safe walking up stairs or in a straight line in front of you , lest you goose him. And, walking behind you, you can stop suddenly, so that he runs into a trailing hand that just happens to be at the right height to tweak his family jewels. Use kisses, in private and in public, to tell him what you would rather be doing lying horizontal. And, whisper dirty thoughts to him, and propositions to him throughout the day. Of course, you should follow through. Nothing will turn a guy off faster than a tease, ie., a woman who is a great come-on artist, but who fails to deliver any of the goods when she can.
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