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writes:im a 51 y/o female my partner is a 54 y/o male, we have been together about 8 mths and at first our sex life was FANTASTIC, as usual, he said he had a high sex drive which suited me just fine, he has been on anti-depressants since before we met, and now he doesnt want to have sex at all and would rather jerk off, which he does almost daily....now were lucky if we do it every 5-6 weeks and THATS at my insistance. first he said it was cause he worked hard and is tired, i accepted this, then when it got worse he went to the doc who 'confirmed' his prob was due to the pills, why didnt this affect him in the beginning. He insists its not me and he enjoys sex with me, but doesnt have the desire, yet can masturbate regularly....another thing, from the beginning is i cant make him cum he can only do this by intercourse or masterbation, even a blow/hand job from me wont work?He will also watch porn when im not home and has no trouble masturbating to climax then???When he says 'it isnt you, its me'? how the hell do i believe him when all this is happening?????WHAT CAN I DO TO FIX THIS
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reader, pyan +, writes (14 October 2009):
hi
how about you watch it and masterbate with it you need to try new things to turn him on does he have any fantacies.
pm if you like have you been out for dinner and a nice place lets us know i am in oz too
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reader, wicked1 +, writes (13 October 2009):
wicked1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have tired to initiate it, he wanked last night when he thought i was asleep, he has been on the pills for years, why now?
ive tried talking to him heaps, pur 'relationship' is in trouble, he doesnt think its a problem.....
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reader, jaks  +, writes (13 October 2009):
Hi, I think he has problem due to his pills. If you take initative and open more to him, I am sure your sex life will be more blissful.ThanksJaks
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reader, wicked1 +, writes (13 October 2009):
wicked1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe wont watch it with me........
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reader, pyan +, writes (13 October 2009):
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you could try looking at the porn with him and seeing if that turns in on with you there
or pm me and i can sugest more
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