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writes:For the ladies. Im starting to like my friend who im getting pretty close with. Is there anything i can do that wouldnt be weird to see if she likes me. or is there anything she might be doing to show me that she likes me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow. thank you both so much. you gave me everything i wanted to know thanks a lot !!!!!
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reader, Signed-With-EyeLiner  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Maybe sort of casually flirt with her a bit and compliment her when you see her. Not too full on though. Try ask round her mates that you would know well. See if they have any advice or if they could see if she likes you.
I agree with below. Ask her somewhere casual to start with maybe. Walk in the park or a coffee.
Or you could just come out with it and admitt to her you like her. Much Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): I agree with Kerrie. I think you should ask her someplace, maybe not too romantic to start, but something like a movie should do.Signs that she might like you:If she constantly makes attempts to touch your hand, she probably likes you. If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. She smiles and laughs at your comments and jokes. If she's a naturally flirty girl, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with just guy friends and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. They might tap your shoulder while talking to you, gently push you or burst out laughing when you tell a joke. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then she probably likes you. She may quickly dart her head in a different direction.If you see most of her friends staring back at you this means that she is telling her friends about you and that she likes you. Smile at her, (natural smile, don't freak her out) if she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you.If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious to if you know that she likes you. She will be completely engaged in what you are saying. Be cool with her friends but don't be too close to where she has to worry about them being potential competition. Notice how she looks at you--she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name. If you do like her. DO NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS. If she evens sees you putting your arm around another gril or seeing another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions easily and not pursue the relationship anymore. Notice if she touches you more often (or finds any excuse to do so). If she constantly asks about your status with girls and what type of girls you like then she is trying to hint to you that she is willing to take that "single" status of yours away and make it into a relationship. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden if you were the topic. If she mimics your movements, then this is genuine sign that she is interested in you. If she turns BRIGHT red when you're near her, or when you talk to her then she likes you. Just trust your gut, and show her you care. If she doesn't feel the same don't get too down on yourself and just be glad to have her in your life as a friend.GOOD LUCK!
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reader, KerrieeeJayne +, writes (28 December 2007):
hey,
well you could try asking her if she wants to go out sometime...and instead of taking her somewhere that you would usually take her,take her somewhere a little more romantic,see where the mood takes you ,though be sure before you make any move that your sure this is what you want to be doing ,because getting into a relationship with a good friend can sometimes ruin a good friendship
lets just say i take it from experience.
good luck
kerrie ..x
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