What can I do? Before I met him, I was bubbly and laughing, now I'm always sad and crying.

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend works with me in a hotel, im a waitress hes a cook.. he works 5 day week i work day in day out.. so theres not lot days that we have togher.. im asking my self why he does this to me .... last week he was dinner shift like me and he took half of it leave.. and today he was all day leave with me and he entered for work supose we were going to spend some quality time togher i was waiting for today a whole week and telling him how im ewaiting for today and he ruined it..it is long time that we havent spent tiome togher and he ruined it like that.. and when we first met i had moiney saved in the bajnk and he always used to spend everything and now hes telling me that i spend everything and he really puts me down.. and he tells me weere are the money ur giving them to someone else and always telling me that im cheating on him an it annoys me and even if i dont answer his message imwdditely he tells m,e that i was with someone else.. i dont know what to do hes over my mind sometimes hes ok sometimes he gets angry even if i tell him something and in front o f people hes always genuin and they tell me u have a quite boy hes ok etc etc and when i tell them hes not they never belive me because with me only he swears and tell me 4 my mum to have a cancer abnd all my family and my dead grandma that shes fu888king with the devilss. it hurts me but people dont belive me and im keeoping his txt messages tol have evidence if i tell him something bad about his family he gets rewallky angry but he can tell me that... he never make love to me and when we make love its always one way that im top of him i give him but he bnever.. when im eating and hes finished before me we have to go out of the restaurant because hes finished... im always crying and when i tell him to go some where that i like its always excuses or like today he ewntered working.. and then he changes again he tells me he loves me etc etc.. tell me what i can do? dont tell me to talk with him because or no conversation or i tell him for northing im devastated and i think i have a depression./.. before i met him i was always bubble andlaghging and now im always sad crying and never talk to people and always rolling my eyes...ps we boughtr a flat a year ago

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