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writes:Should I give up on my marriage? my husband s oldest sister who is power of attorney to him and was power of attorney for his mom before his mom died still wants to be in charge of everything.No way in hell does she want to let go of this. his check goes to her. He is disabled we have only been married gong on 18 months I do not like her or ever will I do not wont to give up for his sake.one he would be no good alone and he loves my daughter and I.I love him to and if I did leave i know he will going back to where she and his sister and brothers will use him. some in family would not be good.She is the biggest problem how do you deal with a bossy overbearing controlling person like her?she says i cannot do things and she has talked about me we have had a few arguments my husband does not get her at all something needs to be done no lie.I see myself as kind of quite laidback but I will let you know how. I feel need be she is intimidating my biggest problem its awful when a paper comes for him to be filled out and because you do not have all his necessary information have to go calling someone you do not like.The papers I have are old I am sick and tired. some things did change when I married him so that will mess me up. one being I made him head of household I think I lost my Section 8 what are me and my special needs daughter going to do various other things.I feel like relocating to get away from her but my daughter may not receive the best services if i do.he does not understand various things he was babied and sheltered and we both would get homesick do that would not be good
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2016): You need to consult an attorney, which is what you should have done to protect your and your daughter's interests before you married someone whom you presumably knew did not have legal control over his finances.
If you can't afford a private attorney, then you can obtain low- or no-cost representation through your local Legal Aid.
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