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LDR. How do we make the most of our time together, and build our loving relationship?

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Question - (29 January 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *exyvixenz writes:

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 9 months we are 5 hours drive away.

We unsually alternate the drive up or down. Usually we see each other late late Saturday, spend all day Sunday and most of Monday together, however we havent seen each other in 6 weeks, since just before Christmas.

He lives in the countryside so we usually take his car for a drive, and park it up somewhere quiet and have some fun.

Its been 6 weeks since we have had sex, which isn't a long time but when we are used to doing it every sat/sun/mon this is hurting both of us.

We don't struggle with communication, and do sext and skype each other, but its just the physicality of it that we are both craving.

I can't wait to see him.

How do we make the most of our time together?

How do we catch up quickly?

Will the crave/need to be close to him fade away?

Ways to improve our sex life?

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A female reader, sexyvixenz United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2016):

sexyvixenz is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I can be 100% certain I am his one and only, in about 1 year I would love to move down to him, however currently with my job and education it isn't possible. So far we currently spend every weekend pretty much together, and most weeks either of us have spare we will visit the other

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2016):

Denizen agony auntUnless there is some plan to be closer together with a time limit on it then your relationship has a dwindling future. Sorry but that's the nub of it.

You also need to be quite sure that he isn't just playing away while he is with you. You wouldn't be the first to have this happen to you.

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