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30-35,
*an't Deal wit his ways
writes:HI, i have a boyfriend that has a BIG problem with me havin home boys.... AND HEs always bring up a time where i went out with one of them.... WHEN WE were brokin up at the time i mind you... AND he hates that i had just friends when i lived with him... AND NOW for just havin friends he kickd me out...AND now he calls saying he wants me to move back with conditions that he wants me to drop my friends and not talk to no one just him.... WHAT can i do with this guy he just fills my heart up with love then does that shyt... IDK HE CONFUSES THE HELL OUT ME...
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Uhhhh NO, F all that noise. No one should cut you off from your friends, ever. Yeah, sure, he probably feels insecure about the one you dated but that is no, repeat no excuse for cutting you off from ALL of them. Like I said, F that noise. Drop him instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): I think he's just jealous for no reason. If it's a girlfriend I don't think he has any problem with that. Because of the opposite sex that makes him insecure.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Well there's two things going on here. 1. Your boyfriend is a bit insecure. 2. It almost never works out for us to have opposite sex friends when we become involved with someone romantically. It will always be a problem, I don't care how you slice it. For one thing, some of your male friends used to be lovers. That's a big red flag in anyone's mind. It's just too convenient to have male friends-with-benefits and call them "friends". I suspect your b/f has sniffed it out and that's why he gave you an ultimatum. You should make a choice because even if you dump this guy, don't be shocked when the next guy doesn't like it any better than this one does. I think when we love someone we all become alittle territorial if we feel our loved one is in danger of being snagged by someone else.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Sweetheart tell him no and that you deserve better. Sounds like he needs an attitude adjustment.
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