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writes:What birthday gift should i give to this guy im seeing? Hes turning 30 so its a momental age but heres the thing Its not a serious realitionship and weve only been dating couple months? Any ideas? Hes not into live sports n its not serious a enough realitionship to buy concert tickets for, meanin im not spendin big bucks on him cuz its not serious.His birthday falls on a weekend and we havent discussed any thing yet (month away) but im assuming hes going out with the boys. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): Don't get him anything. it's not a serious relationship & he'd rather go out with the guys than be with you on his B-Day. At 30 he should be ready to settle into something serious & not be hanging out with the boys all the time. I understand you've only been seeing him 2 months, but why wouldn't he ask you to hang out? That would make me wonder where the relationship is going. And you wanting to get him a gift makes me think you want it to be mores serious. Would he be thingking the same thing if it were your B-Day in a month?? Probably not. Don't give more than he is willing to give, or he will lose interest in you. Play the game until you've got him where you want him. If I were you I wouldn't even mention the B-Day. You're not going to be a part of it anyways b/c he does not want you to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): Make him his favorite dinner, watch a DVD in a genre he likes, and maybe (if you're serious enough) really make him happy with, you know, something nice. The nature of the DVD and what follows it will vary greatly depending on your personal sensibilities and what you wish to encourage in this relationship. But if it's something uncommon for you that is pleasurable to him, then it'll be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): take him out to dinner, and/or buy him drinks.
if you want to buy him a thing - get him a cd he might like, or make him a mix cd.
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