A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:It all started in february of this year. My husband of nearly 2 years (we'd been together almost 8) told me he didn't love me anymore and that we should get divorced. This came out of left field. He later said he only got married because we had a child together. He decided this after he'd been layed off from his job. Things got worse at home. He started dating another woman before we even physically separated. This woman is ex-girlfriend. He told me once that he was having a midlife crisis. He told me that he loves her and that we will never be an item. I still love this man. I don't know if he really is having a midlife crisis and he will come back to his senses or not. I am a christian, and am praying about this situation everyday. Is there any advice on how to fix what seems hopeless?
View related questions:
christian, divorce, ex girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 June 2009):
 How old is your husband? If he's in your age bracket it can hardly be classed as a mid-life crisis. Sounds like he just doesn't like the responsibilities of being a husband and father. Maybe being laid off has messed with his mind. I don't think you can count on him coming to his senses. Make plans to move on without him. I wish you the best, at least you are young and have your whole life ahead. Good luck Honey.
|
