A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I recently started dating this girl. At first, I just wanted to sleep with her. She refused. I try at a later date, she refuses me. So I can see here is a girl who really respects herself. Interesting. I become more interested because of this. She doesn't want to sleep with me (or anybody else) because of her own morals and standards. Maybe she is LTR material. Sex, to her, is not fun and carefree. Its serious business and should be treasured with a true lover. Here is a serious woman with amazing qualities. She could make a great lover.Fast forward a few months, I am still wanting to sleep with her, but she will not sleep with me. Every now and then I get annoyed of her and sick of this attitude she has. Its not because she is sleeping with anybody else, but because she respects and protects herself from a sexual relationship. I WANT to please her and satisfy her and show her how fun love can be, but she does not seem open to the idea of risking her emotions and values.What are your thoughts. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 October 2011):
 I think you are wasting her time, and yours. You want one outcome, she's looking for another. Respect the differences and move on.
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