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writes:Hello! Just a quick question.How does a woman perform during sex? I know there are various sex positions where the woman is in control for example, when she is on top. However, I am referring to the traditional position of 'Missionary' - I know i'm wrong but i've always stereotyped this as the 'man doing all the work'! But I've read somewhere that men hate women who just lay there doing nothing! So what are we supposed to do?I just don't want to disappoint or look stupid in the bedroom department. Thank you in advance for any responses :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Pull him, by grabbing his butt, in you as far as he can get, and move your hips in a counterclockwise circular motion. he'll love it and start matching your moves
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Beige...I think I'll paint the ceiling beige.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): Lie back and think of England is what I heard!
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reader, Blue Sahara +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Move your hips. You can thrust toward him like he is thrusting toward you. The movement might not be as large as his but he will feel it.
Grab onto him, hold his butt (some guys love it, some hate it), rub your leg on his leg, put your hands in his hair, kiss his neck, kiss his hands, kiss him anywhere you can. You just do whatever feels really good in the moment. Even moaning and saying his name counts as "doing something".
Guys just don't like it when a woman acts like all the work he is doing means nothing. So it isn't so much that you have to be doing all this thrusting as much as responded to his touch. He wants to see that you are enjoying it and want to give him just as much pleasure as he is giving you. And that goes for any position you can get into.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Janniepeg is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): It is difficult to move in the missionary position (at least for me) but just try to move your hips in sync with his movements... That's the best advice I can offer.... Hope that helps....
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Look deep into his eyes. Tongue kiss. Wrap your arms and legs around him. Enjoy the multi sensations all over. Tell him how much you love it.
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