I feel like no matter what I do I will feel regret, because if I don`t tell her I`ll regret not telling her, but if I do tell her I might regret ruining our friendship if she doesn`t like me back.

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so I met this girl and we became friends really fast but I have feelings for her. We met a week ago at camp, but she also left that week, and if she comes back to camp I want to tell her how I feel about her becasue I don`t want to regret it latter. I`m turning 16 and she`s 14. But I feel like no matter what I do I will feel regret, becasue if I don`t tell her I`ll regret not telling her, but if I do tell her I might regret ruining our friendship if she doesn`t like me back. The only way I won`t have any regrets is if she likes me back but if that happens I have no clue what happens next. I don`t know if she likes me back becasue part of me felt she liked me back based on how we acted around each other but then one of her friends told me that she didn`t like me. So yeah I really want to tell her how I feel about her if I ever see her again wich I doubt I will, but I just don`t want any regrets.

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