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writes: My girlfriend of 2 months has just told me feels our relationship is over, but needs a week apart to work out whether she just wants us to be friends or whether she wants a relationship with me. I asked her to be honest about it with me and I said "if you're 100% certain that it's over, just tell me and I'll leave you alone". Her reply "well, at this moment in time, I'm 90% certain". I have agreed to have no contact with her for the week as this is what she wants although it's tearing me apart. What do you think the chances are of her wanting a relationship with me again? If, after the week is up she still tells me she needs more time, what then? Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 February 2006):
 Give her time if you think the relationship is worth it, take a good look at the whole relationship what has gone wrong, whats good about it, do you really love her and are you right together?
Two months is not a long time, maybe she feels you are both getting too intense to quickly, is she on the re-bound or are you, what ever the reason is if she wants the space and you want the relationship then go with it and see what happens, only she will know how much thinking space she needs and thinking space will enable her to work through the issues she has with the relaionship.
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