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writes: when you have sex is it better to have romantic music on in the background? if it is why? and what songs would you have on? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, pica +, writes (25 October 2006):
Sounds like you are looking for a recipe for seduction. Ther is no one-size-fits-all I'm afraid. You should think about what your partner likes and how to make them feel comfortable, relaxed. There's nothing worse than a guy "casually" putting on some smooth music and giving you the look. Sorry, but that's laugh-out-loud time for me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): I find listening to music you both enjoy puts you at ease. There's also some songs that are just SO INCREDIBLY SEXY!!! I always find that sex is amazing with 'closer' by nine inch nails on in the background. I'm pretty sure that song was invented to have sex to! hope this helps
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 October 2006):
I've always found that sometimes music is good to take away the pressure of the other person or other people in the house being able to hear everything as some people can't relax completely while having sex if every noise they make can be heard.
I personally am not a quiet person in the bedroom and even though music on or off I can be heard I still like music or TV on even just quietly I think it's just for a constant background noise.
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reader, camille +, writes (24 October 2006):
Personally music puts me off. It's too distracting. Also, you can find yourself moving in time to the music and so it's not a natural response really. Although if I had to suggest something, how abouyt Marvin Gaye?
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