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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I slept with this guy, and i fancy him but i have never known how to get a man to stay with me and i fear rejection all the time anyway. Ever since, i have been to his bussiness many times - he´s got a bar - and socialised there quite a bit. One day he was constantly rude to me, however, at the end of the night he sat next to me and started kissing etc...i refused to be nice to him on the spot and left. Ever since, he keeps being very ambiguous this way; one day he´s nice, one day he´s rude, although he´s never tried to make love to me again. I stopped going to his place for this reason, but then i met him on a couple of ocassions and he kept asking me to be back to his place. I have done so, and he´s been alright for a couple of ocassions but he´s done it again today. Also, he makes a point of not allowing me to bring my dog there and makes it very open and clear in front of everybody, however, he allows other people to keep theirs! I just don´t know what to think anymore...
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 I'm not sure about what is his reason, but I do believe that you don't deserve being treated like this, and I wholeheartedly believe you should leave him. I would say he sorts of beats you until you're dumb, and then he uses you.
I've been there and being away from that kind of people is WAY better than staying with them. Even if you're alone, at least you're happy and you're not trying to please someone who won't ever accept s/he is pleased. I remember that, when I was a kid, I read this Archie magazine where Archie tied his dog to his small wagon and got to make the doggy run by showing him a bone, tied to a stick, which the doggy would never get to bite. That's what he's doing to you (only he does bite you).
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