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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): most definitely NOT under age 16...but its not so much about age as it is a couple other things.
i believe that to have sex you should be "in love" with the other person, in addition to having COMPLETE trust in that person because you are putting yourself out there. and all of these must go along with being smart...you must be smart about sex and always always use protection!
having sex isnt as simple as putting an age to it....there is so much more to it, there is a lot of mental and emotional aspects to it that younger people underestimate or fail to prepare themselves for. sex is a big deal....you have to be 100% ready for it....any doubt then dont do it!
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Whats a good age to open a bottle of wine? When it is MATURE and ripe enough, and definately over 16 years of age (depending on the region it lives!!)...
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Of course never under the age of 16!! But there is no such thing as a good age. Its all about doing it for you, doing it for the right reasons, doing it because you love that person. Making sure your not under pressure to lose your virginity for the sake of it. Lots of people today are proud to say that in there 20 and 30's they are still virgins as they havent found the right person to connect with. But equally people younger do find the right person. ITs nothing to do with age, but all to do with doing it for the right reasons and with a person you love and they love you.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Firstly, be mindful of the legal minimum age!! Then consider - are you bending to peer pressure; are all your freinds saying that they have had sex? - mine did, and so I thought it was high time I did it with my then 'boyfriend', only to discover some years later that none of them actually had! (and YES I did regret it - he was as inexperienced as me, and it was so embarrassing, unpleasant and painful at that age (14 - I know, WRONG!). Many boys also try it on, saying you are "not a real woman until you've had sex", and tell you they "love you" or try to imply that "if you loved them you would let them 'make love' to you". Magic words?? blah, blah!!! - Every girl hears that one! Just be sure that the one you give it to deserves you, and you are in a long-term stable, happy and loving relationship - AND - DO USE CONDOMS, DON'T BECOME YET ANOTHER STATISTIC!!!
I hope I have helped you make a sensible, considered decision. Life can get SO complicated if you rush into adulthood. Be happy, and for now, enjoy being a child for as long as you can - you can never get that back either!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): How bout when your married lossing something so precious is a big thing you'll never get it back once its gone . Ever hear people say I wish I wouid of waited till I was married or lost it with someone i loved or spend the rest of my life with losing it to someone who is just a boyfriend is not the same as a husband even thou marriage is not for ever sometimes.If you need to ask total strangers about something so personal then maybe its not even the time for you to even think about at this point . Your body and mind must be one with this question and trus tme you'll know whens it the right time because that person will make you feel at ease and you'll feel very comfortble with them . So take time to enjoy life right now life is to short to worry about thing like sex right now .
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): A few things to consider - mental amd emotional maturity combined with physical maturity of course. There isn't really a 'good' age per se, but I would say no less than 16, preferrably about 17+. Some rather negative damages may ensue if females lose their virginities at a youthful age. I'm sure you can Google this.
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